How can I let go of this anger?

Question

My boyfriend& I broke up 2 months ago. We had an amazing relationship and we only ended it because hes moving away next year January. Naturally.. We remained close and a few weeks ago began hooking up again. He told me how his feelings were still strong, he missed me lots etc. He even began calling me baby again! I then found out how he's been hooking up with his other ex and sending her similar smses to me. I confronted him about it and he's out my life for good. but the weird thing is im not sad im just so insulted and angry!!!! I just want to let it go but this bitterness is consuming me. we had an open relationship, never cheated, he treated me so well to the point i thought he was more into me than i was into him. How can a guy like that turn& lie straight to my face?? How do I stop being so angry and move on?

Answer 1

just trust all guys are not like this

Answer 2

I am a little confused you say he moved away and that stop you and him from dating and then you and him got back together well it sounds like you could have still dated but anyway I am going through a break up also and it is hard but for you why you are so angry is because you are hurt and you feel like he cheated on you but he really didn't cause you to stop seeing each other so you need to let it go and move on. Get out and find someone else and look for someone that has what you are looking for and this is the best way to get him out of your mind. Good luck

Answer 3

This anger that your feeling is justified but you must let it go and move on. You are absolutely right when you say that bitterness is consuming you. Holding bitterness against someone will eat you alive from the inside out. It looks like this guy completely blindsided you. You must take what you've learned from this experience and decide to move on. The first step is to understand that yes this guy is a jerk but no one is perfect. Never put anyone up on a pedestal because people will dissapoint you and sometimes hurt you badly. Maybe this guy just wasn't the person you thought he was. Thank God that you found out what a jerk he was before he had the opportunity to use you any further. Pray and ask God to help you to forgive this person. Sometimes you are unable to forgive on your own. You must have some divine help. Once you have prayed for help for forgiveness release any bitterness that you have in your heart towards him and give it to God.

Let me tell you a quick story. When I was younger, my best friend hired me to work under her. She was a hotel manager. We moved into an apartment together next door to the hotel and split the rent and deposit. A few months later, her boyfriend moved in with us (without asking me). She started working me tirelessly mostly doing her job while her and her boyfriend hung out by the pool. I asked if we could beginning splitting the rent between the 3 of us and they both thought that I was nuts. I decided to move out and went to the landlord to get back my 1/2 of the deposit. Her and her boyfriend said that this was wrong and that I was not entitled to my deposit. Then, she fired me! I was devasted, hurt and angry but I mustered up the faith to ask God to help me to forgive her. Then, I said Lord I trust in you. I forgive this person and I release this situation to you to take care of. The very next day, I got a phone call from the Hotel (one of the corporate people over her) offering me my job back. I asked what had happened to my so called bf and corporate said that she had resigned. (she actually was fired)

God is good. Remember, All things work together for good for those who love the Lord. He will restore you (if you release the bitterness) and He will avenge you (if you release it to Him with the right motive)!

Answer 4

GET DRUNK!!!! No that is not the answer however you can hang out with friends consentrate on work or whatever else is important in your life! getting over someone is so hard, but everyone does it and everyone ends up okay in the end