My best friend that lives with me is always looking for attention from guys and there is this one guy who is friends with my roomate that comes over to our apartment a lot. He used to come over just to see my roomate and now he comes over to see me, my best friend, and my other roomate as well. He now always calls my best friend to come over and she is always like.. "oh my god, it's joe.. why does he have to bug me?" But when he's here she's all laughing with him and not really minding him being here even though she "hates" him. Why is she doing this?
2006-11-13 04:00:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she is insecure and in need of attention , even though the attention comes from some one she supposedly does'nt like . However I would assume she is somewhat fixated on him and that she is trying to cover that fact up by saying she dislikes him .
2006-11-13 04:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ray H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes him maybe she is worried what you , your roommate or friends might think . What would happen if they got together and it didn't work out : a very tricky situation .
however every girl likes to feel wanted and male attention . why does it bother you so much do you feel threatened because you
1. would like something to happen between you and Jo
2. you are jealous of the male attention she receives
3. maybe you and your best friend need to do things independently then she won't annoy you as much
2006-11-13 12:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering if it's the same Joe I know. He probably has something she wants. I've had a friend like that before. I couldn't stand him, but I got what I wanted from him. Keep your dumb-***'s close. Ha, ha! Men are dogs so I'm going to treat them like the dogs they are. Maby I won't anymore when I find a good one.
2006-11-13 12:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kat206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy friend like that. He annoys the heck out of me, and I sometimes mention that fact to my best friend.. but when he comes over I am not mean to him or anything. I bet your friend is picking up on the feelings this guy has for her and it probably irks her slightly, but not enough to not stay friends with him...
2006-11-13 12:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this girl kinda likes Joe but doesnt want u or Joe to know about it she mite be shy i'm a girl and my friends always act like tht when theyre around boys
2006-11-13 12:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just needing a little more attention to make her self feel good that is not the way to go trust me.
2006-11-13 12:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, girls don't want to hurt anyones feelings. Second it's kind of hard to answer. She just feels that he's anoying when he calls. But dousnt want to hurt him by saying that she"hates"him when he's over, so she laughs with him and talks with him.
2006-11-13 12:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Face
2006-11-13 12:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by sexylittleleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple, she appreciates a humorously creative guy. Unfortunately, you don't have that virtue. Too bad!!!
2006-11-13 12:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a "front". She likes him too. Read between the lines.
2006-11-13 12:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋