Well one day i had stayed the night with my best friend and me and her brother had sex. Well I never had the guts to tell my b/f. We have been dating for 5 months now.
2006-11-13 04:00:15 · 27 answers · asked by shenequa t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My goshhhh.... Thats not love at all .. ao why r u wasting ur time with sum 1 u do not care 4 .. If he's never done anything to u u should not of done that. Tell him the truth . It'll hurt him ., but not u cuz u oviously didn't care. MAYBE he'll tell u he did somthing similar
2006-11-13 04:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are here for support, but seriously, what the hell are you doing sleeping with someone else if you've been with your boyfriend for five months!
If he isn't putting out enough for you, bring it up - tell him you aren't satisfied. But if you just want to have your cake and eat it too, then I really think you ought to break it off with your boyfriend.
If this was a mistake brought on by surrounding circumstances (i.e. drink or worse) then take it as a lesson learned, but don't cause your boyfriend pain for the sake of easing your conscience.
A few different answers there - hope this helps and try to stay faithful from now on - to your current boyfriend and to any that follow!
2006-11-13 04:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't been dating that long , but you must not be in love with him because its sort of a respect thing. If your man satisfies you in the sack or he has his game (financial, romantic, loving)up, then us girls are happy. On the other hand, if anything is lacking, unless you have low self esteem, you're going to start looking elsewhere for those qualities your bf don't have. Don't tell him just yet, look at why you're together and if its worth losing him. You may wanna stay, you may wanna go- weigh your positives and negatives in tha relationship and it will show you what to do
2006-11-13 04:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a stressful one. On one hand it could be considered as tremendously spiteful so you might run off and tell him. even though, in case you comprehend him- and he exhibits out approximately this affair later down the line, and hence learns which you knew approximately it... properly he could be disenchanted which you probably did not tell him. It falls decrease than the scorned-companion bylaw. you should make the attempt to maintain somebody else from being harm that way you have been, while you're able. My husband cheated on me together with his appropriate buddy's fiance.... as quickly as I found out that his appropriate buddy found out quicker- i grew to become into incredibly harm that he did not tell me. it could have saved me a sprint heartache. And the appropriate buddy for sure did not something incorrect, I advise- he grew to become into harm a similar way i grew to become into, so I in no way could have been mad at him for telling me. desire this enables. solid success!
2016-10-22 00:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are breaking up with him. If he asks why? just tell him the truth and say that you do not deserve to be his g/f as you have betrayed him. See what happens, you may be surprised!!
2006-11-13 04:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MUST you tell him? If it's your guilty conscience you are trying to ease, my advise would be to live with it. What good will come of your admission to him? Resolve to never cheat on him again and keep your one night stand to yourself.
2006-11-13 04:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by life made better thru chemistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
collect anything you have from him and then tell him cause after you tell him....he's gonna kick you to the curb.
and you deserve the curb for what you did. to not tell him will only bring more and more anger for every day you hold the lie from him.
men have a term for women like you......whore.
2006-11-13 04:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him - simple - what they don't know don't hurt them - and don't damn well do it again - if your not serious about this relationsip finish it before it becomes too serious - if there are people out there you would like to have sex with - then you must finish the fella for his own good!!!
2006-11-13 04:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Grace - baby No.2 due in October 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to hurt his feelings, tell him. If, on the other hand, you want to keep the relationship, and save his feelings, then I would recommend to keep your mouth shut on the subject, and just realize the errors of your ways.
2006-11-13 04:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by mike w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well once you are prepared to break up then you might as well tell him because if you tell him before you wont be prepared but you will be breaking up
2006-11-13 04:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋