my boyfriend and i were hanging out and MY friend called him 5 times. i want to ask him if he is cheating but i dont want him to get mad. he always is at her house everytime i call him. think that i should ask him but i am afraid.
2006-11-13 03:56:38 · 24 answers · asked by bryanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask. you wont know unless you do.
2006-11-13 03:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe you should explain to him why you are feeling that he may be cheating. I would be also asking your friend why she is calling him so much and why is he over there every time you call. Definately red flags right there. If he gets mad then he may be guilty of something. There is nothing wrong with asking but if you keep nagging him about all the time then yes he will end up getting mad. But with this situation I would definately check it out cause something doesn't seem right at all. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 12:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him anything. Follow your instincts. Why should you be afraid of him? If you are afraid that's a warning sign that you're in a bad relationship.
Why not ask your friend why she's calling your boyfriend and where she got his number?
I'd dump both of them unless they're planning a surprise birthday party for you.
2006-11-13 12:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats a relationship without trust? the worse thing he can say is yes, and besides you know he will say no. you need to catch him in the act of cheating otherwise he wont fess up. so unless you have some hard evidence, just wait until you get some evidence.
2006-11-13 11:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to know. instead of asking him y not ask youre friend? if shes a true friend than she isnt gonna lie to you, but if she does than im sorry! are you afraid that hes gonna get mad or are you afriad of the answer that you may get!it just dosent seem right for him to be at youre friends house all the time...why isnt he at yours?
2006-11-13 11:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by dazeaway_fromtoday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should ask him to see what's going on. You need to question your friend as well. I think that if you are worried about your man cheating, then you need to move on because your assumption is probably correct. But, thats just my opinion. Good luck...
2006-11-13 12:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately this situation sounds very much like he is cheating on you asking him is a waste of time he will deny it perhaps talk to your Friend first ask her why she spends so much time with him i normally would feel uncomfortable being alone with my Friends spouse your boyfriend should not give you reason to doubt your relationship he should not be with your Friend without you there too.
2006-11-13 12:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes you should confront him and your friend and if they are cheating with each other let them both go because he really do not care about you and your friend do not respect you
2006-11-13 12:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime we are scared to because we are scared of the truth and how can you build anything with him if you think that he isn't being faithful to you. I do not think it is healthy for him to hang out with her if you are not with him and let him know this and you need for him to tell you what is going on.
2006-11-13 12:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should ask him. Sounds like to me that there is something going on and you have the right to know. What if you hung out at his friends' house? He wouldn't like that verymuch.
2006-11-13 11:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...there's only one way to put this...ask him...if you don't ask him you'll never know and if you go behind his back and ask him then he'll be even madder than he would have been if you had just asked him...now he may lie...but if you suspect that he is doing you wrong anymore after he says he's not...threaten to end the relationship if you find out he's lying...see how he reacts and if he doesn't care...he's not worth it anyway...trust me...i've been there...
2006-11-13 11:59:42 · answer #11 · answered by xxelectriccandyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋