My family is annoying. Every time I try to say something or try to make a compromise with a family member, they always manage to make me guilty by turning things around to suit their needs instead of compromising. So is your family annoying as much as mine?
2006-11-13 03:05:33 · 9 answers · asked by Rommie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
mine - worst than annoying.....wordless most of the time to comprehend but unfortunately there is nothing much to change it. like it or not they are still call my family. the only way to be better in life is to learn from their mistakes, not making the same mistakes that they have done/ are doing in order to make my life a better one to live. no need to dwell along with it and waste our time cause time will continue to fly and we only have once to live, so live the best of it and no point to regret at the same time cause we have no choice, we can't change family.
2006-11-13 03:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I had a family I would know. My boyfriend and I are orphaned. We met in a group therapy session on feeling abandoned and both really connected when we both found out that we're orphans from the same orphanage! It was REALLY weird... but we are now our own family... with a new family member on the way. We're together, and let's not home we'd turn out to be an annoying, guilt ridden family! I know we aren't a family YET, but it's sorta warming up to be that we're becoming one in a few months. I hope things turn out alright for you. Just remind them that you're a member of this family too and you hope they understand where you stand in this family. It'll work out, don't worry. :-)
2006-11-13 11:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by delightracardeanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my family but they are sooooooo annoying sometimes!!!! I am 12 and the baby of the family and i get treated like im 6 year old!! I got 3 sisters and 2 brothers but only 2 of them live at home and my sister whos 15 is like the biggest pain ever she never stop pickin on me and sometimes i just wanna slap her!!! I get homeschooled and my parents are way strict i dont get to have a cellphone or anything cool and i have curfew and bedtime. I know they love me and all but i wish they lighten up because its rilly annoying sometimes!!!!!
2006-11-13 16:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how unloving of a question is this?! You should love your family, and be blind to their mistakes... everyone has a quirk that will get on someone elses nerves, but its not charitable to tell everyone about it... especially not your family... we are a week and a half away from thanksgiving, hmmm looks like you need to relook at your "situation" and be thankful you have a family.. many do not... think of this quote every time you get a bit annoyed: "you never know what you've got, until you lose it" would you rather be without your family... or have them, with all their fun and interesting quirks, that might get to you now, but you'd miss if they were gone?!
I have 5 sisters and 3 brothers, I could tell you all about their faults, but that wouldn't be loving of me to do... and you know what, I bet I have all the same annoying qualities, life is so much more enjoyable when you are crazy/weird, but love being that way.. accept your family for who they are now, and who they will al become... :)
2006-11-13 11:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Not very... From what u described, the best thing (in my opinion) is to stop trying to make compromises. if they don't respect that u should show them how it is when u do exactly what they do - refuse to cooperate. That should change their attitude
2006-11-13 11:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by red 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My SIL (brothers wife) has an ongoing paranoia about everything we do. She thinks it is directed at hurting her even when we go out of our way to be nice. Then she doesn't show for my dad's funeral and brother says that we have to be extra nice to her or my mom won't get to see her grandson.
2006-11-13 11:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by dixiedarling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my family cant get along long enough to be called dysfunctional. We love each other, but best from a distance
2006-11-13 11:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Hunnybunny00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They used to be very annoying. I think yours sounds more annoying now. Sorry.
2006-11-13 11:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes.
2006-11-13 11:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rae-May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋