I have told her what I am looking for in the relationship. She has no expectations, as least none she is willing to share. If your bf asked you, "What do you want in a relationship? Do you understand what I'm looking for?" that should be a pretty straight forward answer, shouldn't it?
2006-11-13 03:01:03 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been together? How old are the two of you - college age w/alot of changes ahead & still working on becoming your grown-up selves? Or are you both pushing the bio clock so decisions have to be made NOW? DID you ask her what she wanted from this relationship? Or have you just given her a list of YOUR needs & wants & expectations, and she did not comment or respond or share any of her own? Sounds like there is a communication problem. If you need some kind of answers from her in order to continue the relationship, it looks like you're gonna have to ask her straight out. If you HAVE asked her, in clear language like the words you wrote above, and she just stared off into space or ignored you or said "I don't know, I don't want to talk about it..." well then, I think that should tell you what you need to know. Whatever her needs/your needs are, if you two don't COMMUNICATE well, there are gonna be big problems. Even if only one of you thinks there is a problem (I take it she does not understand that there is a problem...) So get on the same page - or cut your losses & move on... Good luck!
2006-11-13 03:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Auntie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people just don't know WHAT they want.
2006-11-13 11:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i talk a lot with my boyfriend about that , and any girl just wona be loved and that he is faithful to her nothing else
2006-11-13 11:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if she knows what she wants, and you clearly explain what you want.
2006-11-13 20:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋