this guy was fine before but now hes acting all wierd and he wants to breakup.i tell him that i dont then he says fine we wont...and then he talks all sh*** about me behind my back---to his friends!
2006-11-13 02:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave him. He is not worth your time or drama
2006-11-13 02:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people first date they do tend to show their good side - which is why he seemed 'fine' at first. It doesn't mean that they will be like that forever - eventually the excitement of a new relationship wears off. When you are no longer attracted to a person and no have other basis for your relationship it can be a strain to spend any time with that person- which is why he is acting 'wierd'. He has obviously not moved in on another girl yet, otherwise he would have finished with you. And he will do when he fancies someone new. Be brave and say that you think he was right - you ought to break-up. If he didn't really mean it then he will miss you and try to get in touch again. And if he did mean it then you are well out of it - talking about you behind your back is so not good for your self-confidence and it makes him a complete jerk. And you don't want to go out with a jerk - do you???
2006-11-13 11:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by queenofspades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong here girl & not let him walk all over you. It seems like he's calling the shots & while he is he will do what he wants.
Is he cheating on you or with other women when you break up?
Don't let him dictate to you - if he wants to break up say fine, & go find someone else who wants you - I'm sure you will not be disappointed.
2006-11-13 11:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is talking negatively about you behind your back, or to your face for that matter, he obviously doesn't have the respect for you that you deserve.. And if he's told you he wants to break up-- it's not worth saving.. You don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you... You deserve better than that...
2006-11-13 12:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks you are to clingy and every time he tries to break things off you go all weird so he says he will try and make things work. when he sees his pals he tells them - truthfully - how he is feeling. i think the next time he suggest breaking things off you should agree or better still you say it first. good luck.
2006-11-13 11:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuldnt even try to save ur realtionship u shuld juss break up wif him cause if he is doin all dat stuff behind ur bacc den dat means dat he doesnt like u anymore!!!
2006-11-13 11:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by emmaline_tran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who not only doesn't want to be with you,but worse yet,bad mouths you to his friends? Walk away with dignity now. Spend your time with people who appreciate you.
2006-11-13 10:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should speak to him once and for all.... if hes fine then continue otherwise hes totally not worth it if he talks behind yr back!!
2006-11-13 10:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read what you wrote, then you should know what you have to do. He is not the one for you! say good bye, to bad rubbish!
2006-11-13 11:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?? WHY are you with this loser for one second!? Move on and find someone who cares about you.
2006-11-13 10:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋