I am mad at this guy that i used to like. about two months ago he broke my heart for the second time, and i just said "screw you i'm done with it all" but i'm having trouble getting over him b/c i really just want to tell him off and just say how i feel. but, i don't know that i will be able to get my point across if i just blurt it out of the blue. should i tell him how i feel (if i should then how should i start the letter) or just forget it and do it if he contacts me? i'm just not sure what to do.
2006-11-13 02:52:14 · 14 answers · asked by angelatheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what I think.
There is something you must realize. If he already broke your heart TWICE and still finding it hard to get over him, you need to understand first what's this thing that is hard to get over. Is t the way he 'woos' you? Something he had done you feel you're in debt with?
Realize that a part of you wants to just forget about him, yet another part still holds on. You may not know this 'thing' right now, but the sooner you would know what this person has on you, the sooner you would be able to do a good decision about your relationship.
For the meantime, don't write any letter until things are clearer for you. The last thing you want feel is regret.
2006-11-13 03:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by arnold m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just wait until he contacts you and then let him know how you feel, you just blurting it out of the blue just let him know he still has a hold on you which is something you don't want to let him know, even though it may be true, wait unil the time is right. Then if you never talk to him again, forget it and get over it.
2006-11-13 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are over him you should tell him cuz you need to move on and telling him will relief you, start by telling him how you feel and that you are telling him cuz he means nothing anymore and you are releasing the feelings you had for him by telling him you feelings. Don't wait cuz that would give him more power over the situation just tell him and wish him luck.
2006-11-13 11:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by William M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write the letter but don't send it :) I think you got your point across. And if he still likes you...he'll come around on his own. But in the meantime, go get yourself another man, a real man.
2006-11-13 10:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by feisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him, don't mail it for several days, re-read it, think about if you really feel that way. You may, but still decide not to mail it. What purpose will it serve for him to read it. Sometimes you just want to vent. He may not care if you are hurt, especially if you haven't been in contact.
2006-11-13 10:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm... forget about him!!
if he broke you´r heart fot he second time... he doesn´t give a damn what you feel and your letter will not work!! he will not even care of what you feel and just keep on being like he is right now!!
2006-11-13 11:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by romigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't contacted you recently....you need to just let it go. Chances are, if you wrote to him he would only throw the letter away. The best way to show him how you feel.........is to move on.
2006-11-13 10:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it and move on. There will always be that asshole that does that to you. Just learn from it and dont sweat over it.
2006-11-13 10:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings are left unsaid. forgive and forget, leave it alone. it is not worth it. move on in your life, learn from your experience, and you will be a bigger person!
2006-11-13 10:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it. He isn't even worth it!
2006-11-13 10:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋