If u r dating some1, is it ok to flirt with other guys?? my friend says i do all the time and thinks it's cheating.
is a simple kiss in the lips cheating??
would you tell ur bf or wait 4 him 2 find out?
he knows that i flirt cuz it's who i am, but not about the rest. Should I tell him or wait and maybe he will never find out?
I love him but just want some fun when he is busy. I flirt with guys at his parties, so he knows about that. What should I do??
2006-11-13 01:51:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you "love" him, you really would not have put yourself in this predicament. If he knows you so well, he knows that you would kiss other guys. I am sure that you would be understanding if he kissed another girl... or would you?
2006-11-13 02:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by sharon_misspriss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, flirting is not cheating. I am married and flirt all the time, but that is because I am a bartender and me flirting means making good tips. Also, if there are feelings between you and this other guy you kissed then yes it is cheating, if not then no. Either way I would still tell your boyfriend because it is important to be honest and have a strong relationship. That is if you still want to be with him. There are many factors that could have led you to kissing this other guy, maybe you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore, or maybe you just wanted to see what it would be like. Still, be honest with him, I am sure he will understand if he really cares about you!
-Sara Lynn
2006-11-13 01:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sara K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and if you really love your b/f why flirt with other men? And flirting isn't safe. There is some guys out there will think hey she kissed me she wants me and when you say no hun you are gonna get rapped. Happens alot. If you love your b/f don't flirt with other men that is wrong.And if your b/f was a party and kissed someone else wouldn't you want to know from him or someone else? And wanting some fun when b/f is busy don't really say much for your self. Maybe you want your b/f but not a relationship.
2006-11-13 02:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. If it is Innocent flirting and you don't have any feelings then no i don't think it is flirting. And if you do kiss then yes it is cheating! Think about your man, would you be OK with him flirting or kissing other girls!? So either you stop kissing other guys and don't flirt as much or let your man go. That's not fair to your relationship.
2006-11-13 01:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by ericarae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how would you feel if your boyfriend was flirting and kissing other girls? If you are okay with him doing the same, then you should just have an open relationship with him. It doesn't sound like you are ready or able to commit to one person. That's fine as long as you are both wanting the same thing. If you are being sneaky, that is not okay. Tell your boyfriend that you want to date other people and let him decide if he wants to keep seeing you. Otherwise, you are being dishonest.
2006-11-13 01:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is fine. Even old married couples flirt with others from time to time. It's fun and it makes you feel good. A kiss on the lips is pushing it - stick to the cheek.
2006-11-13 01:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your boyfriend would get mad at you for doing something with another guy, then you should not be doing it. And a kiss is way too much. You should break up with your boyfriend if you are going to go around and flirt and kiss every guy you see.
2006-11-13 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing is cheating unless you both have a mutual agreement that it is ok to kiss other people while you are dating.
general rule of thumb, if it's something you have to hide, then it's cheating..
since you seem to want to kiss others, i think you really need to question whether this relationship is working for you or not. sounds like this guy isn't making you happy.
2006-11-13 01:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't feel right to you and you have to ask yourself if's it's cheating or not then it probably is cheating.
I know you don't want to but you need to tell your boyfriend
IF you really care about him
and stop cheating/flirting/not being YOU!
goodluck. I know it's hard
2006-11-13 01:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't need to be in a steady relationship. You're definitely not ready if you feel it is okay to kiss other guys.
You may want to talk to your boyfriend so you can break things off before he gets too attached. If you stay with him and continue what you are doing, nothing good will come of it.
2006-11-13 01:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be without a boyfriend for awhile and figure out what you really want.
Your careless flirting will land you in trouble sooner or later and it might be in a bad situation that you will never forget.
2006-11-13 01:54:20 · answer #11 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋