Hi! im 17 and my bf is 19 we've been together for a year and 5 months,i know i love him but he cant communicate he cant talk to me when we fight he just doesnt talk, he doesnt demostrate anything like if i dont say i love you he wont say it there have been like 3 or 4 times that i felt he truly loves me.
We see each other like 3 times a week and he doesnt seem to miss me and just dont think he feels the same thing i feel.
I've talk to him about it but he says he does but he kinda gets mad and it feels he says it cuz he has to and nos cuz he wants to i dont know what to do i do love him but it hurts...
He is my first serious boyfriend my first love
2006-11-13 01:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by sofitaps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communication in a relationship is very important. If he cannot communicate then I think you should let him go. You are still young and have lots of time to find the right one. Love does hurt, but heals over time.....good luck
2006-11-13 01:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confussed by the last part. If you have spoken to him and he is giving you the don't care attitude still then the next best things to do is tell him that the two of you need some time apart. That should get his attention/ If he is still the same way then, there is nothing else for you to do but dump him.
2006-11-13 01:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is just his way of communicating with you, some things u r assuming, but give it a little more time. I know talking 2 him about it might seem unrealistic, but something like that happened 2 me, i talked 2 him and he understood where i was comin from and explained why he was doing some of these things.
2006-11-13 01:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by NiChkoLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way with my b/f, he just didn't show very much affection, and i talked to him about it and told him how a feel and he is 10 times better now!
2006-11-13 01:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get him to undertand how you feel but it's up to you weather you want to be with him still or not. In my case, you should because you desrve better. Good luck though!
2006-11-13 01:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by coolbeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can only say that a relationship takes both hands to clap. u can take this as a litmus test to see if u want to take the next step.
2006-11-13 01:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to move on.
You deserve someone who wants to make you smile every time he sees you and you won't be able to meet him if you are stuck with "no emotions" guy.
2006-11-13 01:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, all u acan do is hope for the best. if u want to dump him than dump him.
2006-11-13 01:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up. If you and him are destined to be together, you two would .... whatever...
2006-11-13 01:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by changmw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋