help, i though i was over him, but i am not....?

Question

my ex bf, we work together and i though i was over him, but i am not! he's back with his old ex now, and he says he is in love with her... I would really love to have him back....i ask but he says that there;s no point!!!

i love talking to him, but cant stand it when he has "love you suuss'' on his msn.. breaks my heart every time..

i want him back so i though that if we could just be really good friends he could she he still likes me, but i dont think i can stand one more ' i love u suus'' stuff!!!

i know i cant make him love me :(

so what should i do?? i really want him back!!!

i should remain friends and talk to him etc and when they break up... how knows...????

should i leave it and see what he does.... ????

please help me, i tried looking really hot around him, but it backfired, he realised i only did this because i wanted him back :(

please help me, i want him back...

Answer 1

Listen, it is over. You need to get over him and fast and the most important thing is to recognize and aknowledge that this relationship is dead. The wanting him back feeling wont last long, but you need to fight it. Your question should be how to move ahead with life. I would strongly suggest you find another job and try to see as little of him as possible and block him on msn.