theres a girl i like and shes a year younger than me
i don't know what she thinks of me but im having a hard time approaching her cos shes with her friends and im with my friends
what should i do? people have made rumers that i like her but i don't if she's taking them seriously
2006-11-13 01:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by Rambo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Advice from older girls,
i can't spell
2006-11-13 01:29:19 · update #1
so find stuff out about her. take the plunge and flirt with her make it known! give her a secret smile when her friends aint looking. you need to somehow coax her away from the friends shes with. im 33 is that old enough advice?
2006-11-13 01:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing you do is brush up on your spelling, you want to impress this younger chick with your worldly knowledge and sophistication, or at least use the spell checker. Then, you enlarge your circle of friends to include others than those just in your age group. In the real world there is no difference between a couple years, its not like a senior and freshman ranking thing. Then, to prove that you are mature and confident, you go ask the little girl out, they will giggle and laugh, perhaps, but will still be impressed with your decisiveness and guts.
2006-11-13 01:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard for people to take rumors seriously anymore. you should let her know. I'm not saying write her a letter on paper bc i realize that ppl see that as so outdated. so why don't you im her or send her an email asking her if she wants to go see a movie or something. or maybe you can see if she wants to go on a group date, that way it won't be as awkward for you if she doesn't like you the way you like her. talk to her friends. these days being shy doesn't pay off.
2006-11-13 01:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you, i'd write her a little letter... nothing LONG... just sweet and simple... you could tell her in there... that way you wouldn't have a hard time telling her to her face... and you wouldn't have to say anything in front of your friends or hers... and you could keep it privite... just between the two of you... tell her not to read it till she's alone b/c it's got some personal info in it... and you could also leave your number in it so if she's interested she could give you a call and you two could take it from there... good luck !!!
2006-11-13 01:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by brandiamour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid,just start off by saying Hi to her! Little by little initiate conversations regarding general things or mutual interests and let it take off from there.
2006-11-13 01:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to go about it is to say hi to her and go from there. If she doesn't reply, she's obviously not interested but if she is, I'm sure you two will hit it off. Good luck!
2006-11-13 01:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her to meet you in private or writ a letter and put it in her bag at school or email her.
Maybe you'll find out then how she feels.
2006-11-13 01:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You politely ask her can you talk to her for a minute then you ask her will she go out with you sometime or could she call you sometime so y'all could talk. Just because your with your friends and she's with her friends it doesn't mean you can't say "Excuse me can i talk to you for a minute?" Good Luck!
2006-11-13 01:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is get her phone number and txt her snd work from there. good luck with that
2006-11-13 01:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by welshwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and slip a not in her bag to meet at a time when you two are alone :o)
2006-11-13 01:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋