I had this bf who couldnt wait,then when he did that was it.......all over!!!!!!!!!lol
2006-11-13 01:27:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make them wait, and if they don't stick around then you know that is all they want. If are real men then they wont try to get in your pants unless you make the first move. I make every guy wait up to 6 months. Find out if you catch them cheating and if they don't then they are worth it. I did that and now I have been with this guy for almost three years in Feb.
2006-11-13 01:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like that. They view girls as just another notch in their belt. They view sex as a sport. How many girls can I do? Can I get the most popular girl ? Then thy move on to the next. for them it's just come ( this thing won't allow the true spelling here) and go. You should be able to go out with a boy long enough to at least find out about him first. Ask other girls. If he is the type I just mentioned, someone else will know about him and you will not want to go out with him. Don't do anything to lead him on unless you want to do it too. Make sure you are ready. But be sure to know ahead of time that if you do it with him does he care enough about you to stick around. Also remember that if you do it with too many guys, then YOU will have a reputation and all the guys will want to go out with you just to "Do It".
2006-11-13 09:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by David C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is because they think with the wrong head. And they usually don't grow out of that. Keep your legs closed. You are obviously not ready for the emotional consequences of sex. I know you think you are, but trust me you aren't. Guys want to get in your pants, but they want you to say no. Save yourself for marriage. Use this as a learning experience.
2006-11-13 09:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the choice whether to let them or not. Wait a while, and maybe they will decide to stay with you based on who you are, not on what they can get from you. If you say "no", they will leave sooner, and you will know what they are really after...and it's not your heart. BTW, I have known girls that are like this, too.
2006-11-13 09:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most boys are like that, they are only for one thing, and that is to just get in your pants, they ain't for nothing but the curb, I meany boys like that, but I don't pay them no attention, The best way to keep a men is to let him wait, because if you just throw it on him then their is no excitement to it because he already know how it is then he;\'s off tho the next girl, if you let him wait on it he well wait for it trust me.
2006-11-13 09:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by babycakes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's guys for you, most are just out to get what they can and not considering others feelings. This should be a learning experience for you. Guys will give you more respect when you don't sleep with them. Don't make it too easy, be a challenge for them and watch how their attitude will changs. Try It!
2006-11-13 09:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll ask a question. Why must women act like a madonna virgin and act asexual (even if they want sex)?
Please do not act like a sheep and follow what the media says you must be.
2006-11-13 09:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. Boyz. Try looking for a man.
2006-11-13 09:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by divalicious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats a male trait. Those who wait and are patient about it make great honest husbands.
2006-11-13 09:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by notalucky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical young guy.
2006-11-13 09:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋