and he started to bleed what im i suppose to do i mean i didnt try to do it i would never hurt him he is all i got i told him im sorry what should i say to him how should i make it up to him and he dont want anything else to do with me will someone help me and give me good advice please please
2006-11-13 01:22:19 · 18 answers · asked by dipset da chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL, getting hurt by his girl physically. The way you ask this question really makes it seem like a serious role reversal. Well, I guess you should get him a bunch of flowers and chocolates and tell him you'll never hit him again and explain how much he means to you.....lol
2006-11-13 01:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let me be truthful, I have an issue with anger. I absolutely CAN NOT deal with some one taunting me during a disagreement. I mean it often feels as though my fiance is playing and taunting me or trying to provoke me by his words and comments during a disagreement and I get so upset and enraged I just feel like hitting him. I think often others don't understand that their mouth can spout out words and comments that can feel like a dagger hitting you and that ultimately you can feel so misunderstood, frustrated, and threatened that you eventually loose control and explode. Now the issue is how can you handle him and these type of situations so that you aren't so easily upset and you play into his drama. Second, you need to deeply apologize and realize that it is hard for anyone in a relationship to accept domestic violence (any form) and move forward with out keeping a bit of bitterness that will fester if you continue with the relationship therefore you need to make the necessary changes (counseling both of you) to make the relationship work. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 01:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you certainly got your work cut out for you. You probably freaked him out when you hit him and it bled. I think the guy has pretty much made himself clear in that he doesn't want anything else to do with you. Seriously though why did you hit him, are your prone to violent behavior, maybe you should try looking into that. Other than that I really can't help you, you scared him and he probably doesn't want to surround himself with that side of you that you showed him. But you could try talking to him again.
2006-11-13 01:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by dsd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but he SHOULDN'T want to have anything to do with you!
You were wrong, and there is NO excuse.
Its domestic abuse...doesn't matter that you're a female.
Learn to control your anger.
If he'd done this to you, he'd probably be in jail.
Stay away from relationships until you learn to control your emotions and your body.
2006-11-13 01:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Shakira 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He should call the cops and have you thrown in jail for abuse.
Why is it only bad when the guy hits the girl?
2006-11-13 03:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want anything to do with you, do you blame him?
you're not supposed to hit people you love.
all you can do is say sorry, and hopefully the pair of you can work things out. it depends on how close you were before the argument.
good luck
2006-11-13 01:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sorry but you put yourself in a man's position by hitting him like that and he should have hit you back to let you know how it felt. you don't hit people that you love. love doesn't do that. he should leave you and not look back. if you do it once then you will more than likely do it again when you get mad. would you want to be with him if the tables were turned, didn't think so.
2006-11-13 01:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by gardener24 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
U felt sorry that a good sign n its shows that u love him more thatn u can..... anyways I think u should go to him wid a bouquet of his favrouite flowers n attached wid a sorry card n say I love you n show ur love for him...... u also try to make him happy by taking him out for candle night dear n dont forget to shred tears before its a big n effective soft weapon of any gals........ N Best of Luck in ur love for ur success......
2006-11-13 01:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by hi_its_me_jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
in any relationship, if one person hits the other, then there seems to be poor anger management and loss of self control... not all the time, just at the particular moment... you'll need to assure him that it won't happen again... if you do it again, you might wanna rethink your course and seek some anger management counseling...? if he had hit you, what would you want him to do? how would you expect him to make it up to you?????
2006-11-13 01:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by brandiamour 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Rule #1 NEVER hit your partner. You have no right to do that to him nor he to do that to you. Even if you say you didn't mean it, I'd say you have to control your anger. My advice: get yourself sorted
2006-11-13 01:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋