My kids are only 2 and 3 years old. I have read that little ones sleep better and longer if they room in together. The article also said it was great for bonding and development as well. We have a large house with extra bedrooms but we and the kids prefer that they stay together. (they have seperate beds)
A "friend" was over the other day and said that I am lucky that no one has called social services on me since I have a boy and a girl in the same room.
Does anyone know if there are specific rules or laws about this?(we are in Michigan if that makes a difference) And also, barring any legislation on the matter, how long do you feel that children of the opposite sex can/should share a bedroom?
Thanks so much!
2006-11-13 01:01:11 · 12 answers · asked by Lady Scientist 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
your children are just babies. i would give them their own rooms around age 5. only because they may be more interested in having their own space. and they may start having playdates i think if there is a law it may be to protect older children from sharing rooms. i would hope there is no law disallowing babies from sharing rooms. if u do get a visit from social services its this friend that called them on u. people who think they should not share a room have a sick mind.
2006-11-13 01:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Miki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most states do have a law that boys can not share bedrooms with girls. But people have been doing forever, and will continue to do it. I don't think it is a big deal. But once the children are about 5 or 6 then it is time to get them separated. At that age girls, and really should be with there own gender at sleep time. I shared a room with my brother til I was about 10. I hated it! But some parents have no choice. You could find out about your specific state laws, but chances are you will not get caught, I know many parents who have their kids sleeping the same way, it's up to you and what you feel is best for your children.
2006-11-13 01:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" is a total ***. There is nothing wrong or illegal with a boy and girl sharing the same room. I would say they should have their own rooms by 5 since you have the space and that's when kids really start noticing things and asking questions.
2006-11-13 01:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what your "friend" says! They're young kids and siblings at that! There is nothing wrong with them sharing a room. If it bothers you then give them each their own room with bunk beds/two beds in each room so they can sleep together if they chose to.
2006-11-13 03:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son became into 22 months whilst my daughter became into born. they have continually shared a room, yet we don't have the different option. My daughter slept with us in her bassinet till she slept in the time of the night. i don't keep in mind precisely how previous she became into, i think of perhaps around 3-4 months. I even have on no account had any problems with them sharing a room if something my son could save her entertained longer to enable us to have slightly time beyond regulation. Now I difficulty approximately keeping apart the two one in all them. My son is 3 now and my daughter 22 months. My son is sooo attractive, he won't bypass away their room in the morning till i bypass to get them with the aid of fact he does not prefer her to cry if she is on my own. i think of that them sharing a room has continually made them closer, yet i don't be attentive to what i could do if i will have given them their very own rooms. I probable could have nevertheless saved them collectively till my son turns perhaps 5 or 6. the two way i think of it is going to likely be effective.
2016-10-17 05:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by lander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,i have my 8yr old son sharing with 6 yr old sister and i have never had a problem,we have just built another room so they will be moving very soon....they are the best of friends.....
2006-11-13 01:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it promotes the possibility of incest when they hit pre-teen. Is ok that they share the bedrrom while being too young because they'll surpass fear of the dark faster. But as soon as they hit pre-teen they MUSt be separated. I'd separate them when the older one hits the age of 6.
Oh! and beware of that someone that told you about being a miracle not being reported. If he/she pointed it out is because it scandals him/her. Don't be surprised that he/she is the one that will backstab you.
2006-11-13 01:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would separate them as soon as they are aware of their differences. A 5 year old should have a separate room.
2006-11-13 01:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a problem
what if you were a good mother but you can not afford the extra bedroom
your children are find beleive me soon they will want separate bedrooms
2006-11-13 01:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move them as soon as one turns 5 years old. Just because in preschool and kindergarten they start to learn the let me show you mine if you show me yours. Kids will start to get curious.
2006-11-13 01:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Peek A Boo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋