OK, here it goes... I'm obsessed about the way i look, I look like i'm neglecting myself but actually.. i'm not! I miss the way used to look last summer... bigger boobs, wonderful ***, wonderful tan and such a cute face, with fab hair... And now, omg... i look lame! My boobs are getting smaller... and i dunno why this happens, and i'm sure of it cos my bras don't fit.... And not to mention my hair, it looks like it hasn't been washed for weeks... My face looks ok, though i think i was cuter last summer... When i look at these girls in my highschool, i get so depressed cos i know i'll never be like them (even though, i must admit... last summer i looked better than any of them)... I have a bf, but i always wear the best clothes and best make-up style, so that he never sees my shitty days. I can't even call them shitty days anymore... cos i look like that almost everyday. I don't like my clothes anymore, i don't think they flatter me at all... What must i do about all this?
2006-11-13 00:33:17 · 7 answers · asked by Flavia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think Isis is right. When it comes to me I am kind of obsessive with the way I look too, but in my case I am a 33 yo with no boyfriend, so I think it would be asking too much to ask a woman in this situation not to worry too much about looks :-) but since you have a bf and considering your description you look good, try to move the focus for other things, from helping others to having interesting dates with your bf, so that you will feel loving, loved and... beautiful :-)
2006-11-13 00:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Look arent that importent ppl just think it is cool but dont worry bi have been there....well 2 it was summer so the sun helped and ur boob prob ask ur mom or something and then yeah well 3 give the clothes u dont like to goodwill (someone might like them) and then if you get any money from those then get some new stuff.
Good Luck hoped that this helped
2006-11-13 00:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by GossipGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is one good idea: to stop being obsessed with your looks, get active with a community group that is helping people in need. You will find that your concerns about looks are shallow and you will discover a rich new part of your own personality.
2006-11-13 00:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new wardrobe and go to salon for a complete new look....this is unbelievable to me. You need to find a REAL problem hon. Looks will fade REGARDLESS...What is your GPA? DO you have a hobby? Geesh
2006-11-13 00:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really understand how u feel cos i m going thru the same thing rite now!! i really feel very withdrawn now n it's makin me be an introvert.. i am ashamed to go out in case i get laugh at cos of my dressing ansd stuff like tat.. but i got a very good fren who stay by my side no matter wat.. she's always consoling me all the time and encourage me to stay healthy.. we go joggin together, go shopping together etc.... rite now, i feel happier and slowly regaining my confidence.. she once told me tat it's all my mind... and once i get rid of tat mentality i haf, i'll begin to enjoy every single moment of my life.. and u know wat? she's rite!! i hope tat u haf a fren like tat and trust me, u will be ur old self in no time :)
2006-11-13 00:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like something medical is going on, time to see your doctor and tell him about the changes
2006-11-13 00:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by The Hater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im agree with the two answers before mine...
2006-11-13 00:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by @lli3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋