so the general concensus is if you have been cheated on dump em.
But what about getting revenge by cheating on them ?
2006-11-13 00:00:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best revenge wouldnt be showing you too are low but instead leaving and being noticably happy with another woman.
2006-11-13 00:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To get revenge sleep with a close relation to her. But if she has cheated on you your best bet is to provide no explanation. Mystery has the most appeal at all. Just seem inexplicably too busy to see her a lot. Never admit to anything, just when you do meet with her seem a little distant. Then without waiting too long take her for a meal, order a good one then go to the toilet but never return and leave her with the bill. When she asks where you were tell her sorry but your girlfriend called so you went round to see her. Women often use this trick so it's nice to offer a little payback. She'll have lost after that and will know it.
Revenge is a dish best served cold!!!
2006-11-13 12:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bealzebub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is better than Christmas.
I did that once, I got cheated on and by my own decision I decided to try and patch it up and then it just ate away at me so I thought sod it and my revenge was to have an encounter or 2 myself. Felt good at the time but now I think I should of just held my head high, dumped him and let him know it didn't get to me.
I think that would have been better revenge, to show that you're above it all.
2006-11-13 00:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing revenge does is makes your forget temporarily the pain that the other person caused you,the other person that cheated on you does not care at all about your feelings,,at least that is what I have learned from past experience.
It makes me wonder why I even bothered with them in the first place,I am too trusting and don't see the bad side of people until it is too late,and it hits me in the face hard.
Alcohol is another temporary solution..but it is "temporary" and when it wears off,the problem is still there.
Revenge does not work,because the other person got their licks in first ..no pun intended. lol
2006-11-13 00:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only revenge you can give for being cheated on is to break up with the other person. If the other person is still in love with you, that will hurt them more. Because then they don't have you any more. Plus now that your single again you can go out with that other person you where wanting to cheat with. Take care & good luck
2006-11-13 00:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will come back & bite you in the a@# for one. I don't say leave if someone cheats on you either. There is a time when enough is enough if it is an all the time thing but I do beleive that we all make mistakes.I think mostly the person makes the call in what they will take & not take in a relationship.
2006-11-13 00:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do the same. Just take it as a lesson learned. Try to be smart in future. Revenge dosen't serve any purpose and you will find that you are no better than those people who cheated on you.
2006-11-13 00:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What good would that do. You would never regain each others respect. Would you? If you have no feelings for this person you are with (love the one your with) go and get a new life.
Best advice ever!
Edit: If you want to let the person who cheated feel justified for their actions then by all means cheat on them. No I don't think so either. Make them stew in their own juice and feel guilty.........move on!.
2006-11-13 00:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would ya bother if you wanted to get them back by all means but could you stay with somebody even after that cheated on you?
and what would the end result be they cheat on you you cheat on them i mean ye are obviously not going to marry anytime soom get a grip and walk away with your head held high
2006-11-13 01:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by aoife k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by cheating on some one, because they cheat on you how does that really make anything better for you?... except make you feel worse than you did, simply because while you are wasting energy getting your own back...the other person is moving on with their lives....revenge never solves anything you just end up feeling hurt more than before, and just end up lowering yourself to the other person's standards, which makes you no better than they are.
2006-11-13 00:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋