2006-11-12 23:45:55 · 31 answers · asked by chicaguanajuatence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is a very funny aspect of the relationship.
If a guy feels he's not getting the right amount of sex or teh proper caliber of sex, he feels he is free to find someone who is, BUT it's not really cheating, more along the lines of having a service performed, like getting your tires rotated.
The rest of the relationship is fine, but that one portion needs some outside help.
2006-11-12 23:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they cheat when they think they can get away with it. They might see that girl as an easy forgiver. Not all guys cheat, but the ones that do will continue to cheat always. And one of these days, they will find a woman who will "explain it to them slowly (and possibly painfully)". Karma always finds these guys eventually. She's my favorite goddess. Cause she knows how to adjust behavior. Never be dumb. Look with your brain and not your heart. If something doesn't feel right, look right, seem right, there is a good chance it is wrong.
2006-11-13 07:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here are some reasons:
(1) like they say, "you never know what you have until you lose it". Most men don't see the benefit of a girl that is good to them.
(2) Biologically, Men behave like dogs and cannot control their desires until they are fully matured in the mind.
(3) Psychological, Men have inflated egos which makes them believe that the more girls they sleep with, the more honour is given to them. They see girls as "trophies" that need to be conquered, irrespective whether the girl is so good to them. These men are the ones known as players.
(4) Sometimes, they do this for excitement and adventure.
(5) And finally, Men are just jerks. They just dont know what is good for them. The prefer the "bird in the forest to the dove in the house"
2006-11-13 08:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my own opinion and experience is that if you've been with them for a while they kno how you work!! and they take advantage of that. Its really hard to answer your question because really that's how they work. There is no excuse in wat they do though. So it's either you stay and take the heartache over and over or leave and find someone else. But be prepared for the next and learn from ur last. As long as you are treated good that should get u thru.Just as long as you know u are doing the right thing by him ur sweet!!! But if u retaliate against it you will be just as bad as him. Be true to urself and only you coz u wont b hurting as much wen u do catch him out!!!
2006-11-13 07:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the ones that are good to them are always there for them and they know it. So they start taking liberties to see what they can get away with. The girls forgive them because they care. It becomes a vicious cycle and the ones hurt are the girls. The guys are jerks.
2006-11-13 07:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Vince 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys aren't at all morally educated now days...so that's a big reason. They view women as objects and not people. (I'm a guy by the way so everything I'm saying is what I believe is true)
Another reason is that most don't know what they want in a girl(depending on age of course) so they THINK that the current girl they're with is ideal for them, but as time progresses, they notice little details they don't like..and since most guys aren't open about their feelings, they end up cheating instead of talking it out with the girl.
Guys: TALK TO THE GIRL FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! It's not fair to them and it's not humane to manipulate or play with their feelings.
2006-11-13 07:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos D 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a rash generalisation - it's all about the nookie...
That's not the only reason, but it tends to rate as one of the top reasons. The fact is, you can't keep a man who doesn't want to be kept.
(As they say - it's like eating in a restraunt. You may study the menu, or make a quick choice - but as soon as you order and receive your meal, someone else will get something that looks better than what you have.)
2006-11-13 07:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in that type of relationship & the more you try to figure it out the more confused you will get . I think that cheating is not just a man thing it is a human thing.
2006-11-13 07:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all guy like that but the fact you have been cheated is hard to accept maybe they want to get revenge because their past time but overall if you are dating a guy you should watch your back i meant you should know who he is, story about him and if you are being cheated don't get revenge just move on.
2006-11-13 07:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question would be why do good gals always go for the worst men ? there must be something about loser men that attracts gals all good gals (including good looking chicks) to them. And then when they get cheated the gals stat cribbing.
2006-11-13 07:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋