i trusted a male friend that posed not be interested in me with my thots and life wishes. i shared with him my wishes, descriped my kind of guy ,my plan for the future and the reason why i have been turning down every dating proposal, but prefer to date only when I have accomplished a particular desire in me e.t.c. Yet he writes me now telling me, God had instructed him to ask me out after fronting to be just a friend for this long.
2006-11-12 23:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy, and this has got to be one of the lamest come-ons I've ever heard of.
Guys have used women's religious convictions throughtout the ages to get what they want from them be it sex, money, or whatever else is available.
Tell him that God told you that you shouldn't change your friendship with him into something romantic.
Better yet, tell him that God told you to stop hanging around him.
2006-11-12 23:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be in fruitcake mode right now dear. God really doesn't talk to too many people, unless you count the ones who constantly carry large potted plants through the streets, yelling toward the sky about the government watching them.
And anyway, She is wayyyyy too busy to tell this guy to ask you out. He's messing with you to see what happens. He can see you are slightly needy and might want to take advantage of this too. Be careful. And don't give him the chance.
2006-11-12 23:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether God spoke to him or not, is between him and God. What IS the true problem? Do you despise him for not being absolutely honest about how he feels? Or is it because u feel he tricked you? Maybe he wasn't interested until u confided in him and he fell in love with the real you or maybe God spoke to him. What is omitted from this question is how u feel, do u like him? That is all that matters. It is obvious he likes u. However, u must give him credit for getting to know u... sounds like a good guy, I dont know what your problem is.
2006-11-12 23:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just playing with your emotions and fine part of your nature . Be alert and do not give a dam on this issue and his words . Please do start ignoring his mails / telephone etc from now onwards for your own happy and promising future . May Almighty blessed you with lots of strength , good luck .
2006-11-12 23:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wary, my past girlfriend was much like you and she had inspired a lot of changes in my ways and thinking and living but to say God has told me to date you is questionable. Give him a shot if your interested in him but be careful. If his motives shift or attempts to pull you away from your beliefs then he is insincere.
-NmD!
2006-11-12 23:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just interested in you and couldn't come up with a better way to ask you out. You know him, what are your instincts telling you?
2006-11-12 23:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie67 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most probably he just likes you or wants you in bed (depends on the guy) , well you have to decide whther you want to pursue further with him.
2006-11-12 23:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he's taking advantage, but he's obviously using it as an excuse to ask you out
2006-11-12 23:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weird religious freak.
If you believe that!!!
Then God has just told me to tell you, dont go out with this loser !!!
2006-11-12 23:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him the truth is always better
2006-11-12 23:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by kkamdog 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋