I have been cheated on by my gf and have forgiven her but i cannot forget and it is affecting the way i feel about her .
Is there anyway to move forward or should i just give up on the relationship. your experiences and advice would be nice please
2006-11-12 23:29:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would move on. I was cheated on by my childrens father again and again. They never change and you will always wonder. Its a lot to handle. I would say find someone that cares about you and takes your feelings into consideration. After I got rid of the childrens father I met my husband and I know that he would never cheat on me. I trust him because I do not have the same feelings that I had in the past about worrying everytime he leaves as I did the other jerk. Good luck and find a good woman who will love you and only you.
2006-11-12 23:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by country girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the trust is gone and you want to make this relationship work then you need to forget sweetie cause if you don't it will only eat you up inside.I had a hard time getting over it but its good to talk about it and let it all OUT .Asked her why and tell her to show you that you can still trust her.But if all your gonna do is throw it in her face then just move on. And some people are sincere and learn from there mistakes but some are deceiving and keep on cheating.
2006-11-12 23:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love always is stronger from one side in a relationship. Accept that to err is human and to forgive is Devinne. Treat her the way u would like to be treated if you cheated, but then again, the fact that you are thinkin of moving on is a sign that u ain't really into her. I dint know about you, but a girl I love, I would forgive and forget for doing anything. As long as she does not make it a habit,
2006-11-12 23:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been cheated on by my boyfriend and guess what it never goes away because whenever he is not around me i think he is cheating on me but the good thing is that it will take a while to work out itself depends on how much you love the person as it has been three months for me since it happened and i getting there to forgive my boyfriend so if you love her think that she made a mistake as we are human and try to forgive her. Best of luck to you i really hope it works out.
2006-11-13 01:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same old thing sweet,when other Male or female cheat they get such a frill that they will do it again again no good hey don't stay with her if you have bad thoughts about it it will only get worse bless dump her and move on to some body that you can gain trust in i was cheated on by my ex he such a Pratt and i don't think he will ever relies just what he missed out on now that the children are getting older still it was greed for some old slapper lol wish you loads off luck...x
2006-11-13 00:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on, but I have never taken anybody back afterwards. I couldn't stomach it to be honest. If it's affecting the way you feel about her then I would say it's time to move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-12 23:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned not given away. She violated that and now you can't forget it. You want to offer her trust but you cant. Given a lot of time you may be able to but is she worth it? If a person can do it once they can do it again even more easily, so I'd give up and move on.
2006-11-13 12:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bealzebub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was cheated on constantly by 1 of my ex's. and i always took him back as he always sed he loved me. in the end i had to finish it, as it was affecting my work and home life ect. im now in a loving relationship with some 1 i went to primary school with and he is stil with the same girl, she pregnant and their engaged, but hes not happy
my advice is take a simple break, tell her that you can not cope at the moment, and if you decide in the future that you can infact forgive and forget then contact her on that ecxact moment or you may end up losing her.
2006-11-12 23:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by amethyst2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married 5 yrs to a cheater,,stayed that long for the sake of the children,,but figured out bad relationships are not good for children,,never forgive and forget cuz then they will just repeat it.
the the ex married 3 other after me and 1 b4 me,,he cheated on them too,,something in the brain is rigged wrong
2006-11-12 23:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on and forgave him only to have him cheat again later on. We've been divorced for quite a while and he continues to cheat on everyone he's been involved with. Personally I couldn't continue a relationship knowing that the other person had cheated.
2006-11-12 23:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋