i know my long distance gf is lieing about her living circumstances, and asking me for money, she will just not admit to this, if she lieing about this could be lieing about everything else. should i bother investigating further or just dump her, feel she has just strung me a long i have been loving helped her financially and trusting for ages, but i have actual evidence to prove she living with her parents and not needing rent - help i am loosing trust
2006-11-12 23:29:05 · 18 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The clue phone is ringing - she has lied about needing rent money. On that one thing alone, that should be a dealbreaker and the end of the relationship.
How far her deceit goes is anybody's guess.
Want to spend more money chasing around after her while you gather more evidence about what else she is lying about?
Plenty of honest women out there (who can pay their own rent).
Your choice.
2006-11-12 23:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to investigate further if you already have proof of the income thing. She's using you for money so she's going to lie about anything and everything else.
2006-11-13 07:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Vince 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could still be needing to pay board to her parents. But I will say that if you have gone to the extreme of investigating and gaining physical proof, that you obviously do not trust this girl, maybe its time you moved on. Theres no relationship if you cant trust each other.
2006-11-13 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have already lost the trust you had for her. Be honest with her - tell her you know what she's been doing, tell her the money will stop coming and ask her where she sees the relationship going. Tell her - that your not happy and that you want her to be honest, if she cant do that for you then she is not worth it anyway - you deserve better. x
2006-11-13 08:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes using you as an extra bank account. Dump her John - you can do so much better than this - do you want to be an ATM machine for this woman??
You know in your heart this isnt working - you may love her but its obvious she doesnt love you - get out fast. xx
2006-11-13 08:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her what you feel, after all trust and faith is the first step in future for a happy married life.
2006-11-13 07:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetbabes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you tell her what you think and see what she says? Just because she's living with her parents doesn't mean that she isn't paying rent. Her parents could be charging her.
2006-11-13 07:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie67 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she lie you that is a great problem for both.you never will trusted her.is better to take things like they are and take your way
2006-11-13 07:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GIVE HER ANY MORE MONEY!!!!!!!!!
OH YEAH AND DUMP HER! SHE IS USING THE LONG DISTANCE THING JUST TO GET MONEY OFF YOU AND IM SORRY IF SHE IS LYING ABOUT THAT SHE WILL LIE ABOUT OTHER STUFF!!
2006-11-13 07:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well its obvious to you she has lied to you but from experience ill say that if you cant trust her then maybe you shouldn't be with her with no trust it cant be a good relationship
2006-11-13 07:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋