2006-11-12 23:19:53 · 32 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, get out now. He is married and is only using you for sex, you are wasting time on this man when you could be having so much fun on the dating scene.
Married men will say anything, i.e. im unhappy at home, we have not slept together for years, we are only together for the kids - its all crap.
The majority never leave there wifes and the mistress is always branded as a slag and a homewreacker. Do not think that he is cheating because he loves you, if you stopped the affair tomorrow, he would looking for your replacement. To him you are a distraction from married life, if he was so unhappy he would have left his wife before he met you.
Get shot and have fun, you dont need him!
2006-11-13 19:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
Here are all the postitive reasons why!!!:
1. It makes him a cheater.
2. And you a Wh0re.
3. You get the opportunity to destroy his wife & children (if he has any) when they find out that daddy's a cheater. And that you're a wh0re.
4. You're not good enough for him to marry...she was though....thats why you're just his hooker on the side.
5. You can feel good every day about YOU...knowing what a person of great morals you are...
6. You get the distinguished title of homewrecker from both sides..the wives family, AND his too when they find out that He's a cheat. And you're a wh0re.
7. If they divorce and you end up in a "real' relationship with him, he wont EVER cheat on you. Really! because, "you're different"
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SO...Absolutely...stay with the guy! Sounds perfect!
2006-11-12 23:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship with a married man has NO future unless your his wife. If your dating or having an affair with a married man, just remember, he cheated to be with you, he'll eventually cheat on you too. All you'll get is a broken heart and a bad reputation as a homewrecker. He's no good and has no respect for women or wedding vows. Does he have kids? If so, thats not a role model they need.
2006-11-12 23:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by funnybne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. If you really love this man and he loves you then he would have left his wife a long time ago. Do you really want to be with a man who cheats on his wife? How would you feel if you were his wife? Knowing that he is married and does this, you still want to be with him. You know if he is doing this when he is married he could just as easy do it to you. My advice is to leave him and find someone better who isn't married.
2006-11-12 23:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean live with him? Or sleep with him...
If it’s live, and nothing will ever go on, then yeah why not. But if its more, then not really. He is married and he shouldn’t do anything. I know this sort of thing goes on all the time, but it doesn’t make it right. People always get hurt. Don’t believe him is he tells you he will leave his wife for you, if he does, what make you think he will stay with you? It’s hard i know you can’t help whom you fall in love with.
Hope this helps, and have a nice day
2006-11-12 23:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far away this situation, there will be nothing but heart ache if you get attached. Then you also have to think of if he is will to get with you, how many other times has he done this and do you really just wanna be another notch on the bed post?
Take what everyone else says to heart and just find our own man and make him oh so happy.
2006-11-12 23:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by lajasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO u shouldn't b/c in the long run it creates problems and it's just wrong. Find someone who's single and make a life with them b/c oneday when ur married u don't want ur husband to cheat on u and u be in that situation. So think about it and get out now. There are plenty of other men out there honey don't go with the ones already taken!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 00:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. You need to dump his sorry behind. He will never make you happy. He wont leave his wife for you and if he did, could you trust him since he did that to his wife. You are nothing more then a toy to him. He plays with you when he is bored then you go back on the shelf. You can never be happy with a man who treats another human like that. How could you hurt his wife like that. He can say anything he wants about her but unless you have heard from her he is most likely lying to you..
2006-11-12 23:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is not married to you you obviously know the answer you need to find someone who can dedicate himself to you and making you #1.And another thing if you know he is married you know you are wrong and obviously cant get a man of your own.
2006-11-12 23:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and once again NO. The need to finish up their marriage before they can move on........I speak from experience. And as long as they're legally "married", YOU are the intruder, the outsider, and anything else that you can be called. He may tell you he loves you, and he's great to you, but trust me, his first loyalty is home, with her and the kiddies, if they have any. Move on girlfriend, let him get his divorce, and if he comes back, good for you. If he doesn't.........you'll know for sure.
2006-11-12 23:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋