we are 5 sisters and 3 brothers,my father left us a big house and a shop.we are quarreling about the way to divide thi property.
2006-11-12 23:16:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
While you are quarreling, the house and shop value is deteriorating. Ever see old houses falling down because heirs couldn't decide what to do with them! How's that for preserving a parent's memory. Have the property appraised and have those who want it give the rest their monetary share. If some want just land, have the property subdivided. Then there's the family where some kids are always given more than others. Those are the ones who want the others to "give" them something instead of sharing the burden.
2006-11-12 23:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two alternatives: If you have the money, you can buy out your relatives for the approximate value of their stake in the business and property; or, you can have it assessed, put it on the market and divide the proceeds among you. The one thing that is going to come up years from now is: the fact that you all sold your memories for a few bucks that are long since gone and the faces of those you once loved are now tinged with guilt!
2006-11-13 07:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are quarreling you should sell it. That way you can easily devide it among all of you. If one or more of you don't agree, you can have a taxation done. Those who don't want to sell can have the first right to buy from the others. If they can't afford the taxated value minus their own share, sell it to somebody else and devide it evenly.
2006-11-13 07:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your father did not obtain a house and shop so his kids could fight over them after his death. Sell them and divide the money. Everyone should get their equal share.
2006-11-13 08:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your fathers will say.? If he say you equally own it then sell it and divide the money .
If one or more of you family members want it then they can buy out the rest of the family and argue it out themselves.
2006-11-13 07:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell it and divide the money. If one of your family wants the house then they can buy it from the Realtor.
2006-11-13 07:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be best to sell it if you cannot come to an agreement. Sell at auction to the highest bidder then split the money evenly.
2006-11-13 07:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are avoiding outpouring you emotions on this journey you are taking. YOu are also not in control of yourselfm and time is passing you by.
2006-11-13 08:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋