how do keep family happy when you can not reach economically?

Question

most of the poeple do not hav money to keep their needs true. results...dissatisfaction in family.

Answer 1

Abundance is always a reflection of our inner state of mind and never the reflection of our bank balance as abundance is an inherent ability to enjoy what we have within, along with what we have on the outside, the more enjoy what we have, the better our financial abundance gets.

That is why the more we can believe that our needs and aspirations will be and are being taken care of by the Universe, the better are our chances of increasing our future well being and abundance, which is mostly a reflection of the abundance of spirit in us, unless experiencing financial scarcity right now is somehow part of our future life journey. All great leaders have used experiences of their financial hardships into catapulting them into great financial futures.

So, not having enough money now can be a guarantee of future abundance provided we can use this as an opportunity rather than a handicaps as real handicap is lack of inspiration and determination in life and not lack financial power, all great men and women who have succeeded in life show ample proofs of that.

Having money is not a guarantee for happiness nor not having is a guarantee for unhappiness, is it?

Further having enough money to feed and pamper ourselves is in no way a vaccination against dissatisfaction or discontentment of the soul as that come only when we can step beyond our ingratitude and craving for the mundane need and see beyond our means and time into aspiration or even inspiration.

All great leaders had to go through some sort of hardship in life to find their spirit and character in them.

Life always gives us enough to push our spirit and aspirations ahead so that we can transcend them into what lies even beyond what can dream of right now.

Many great leaders having been born in abject poverty have risen beyond any ones imagination, because they managed o use their financial handicap as a spring board rather than a chain that tied them to their poverty and hopelessness.

Their poverty and family hardships only made them tougher and more empowered to make breakthroughs to new territories in business and public life.

Financial well being is not a sign of well being of spirit nor it is guarantee for future well being of body, mind or the spirit while gratitude is - an inherent ability to enjoy whatever level of comfort or well being one can afford within ones means. It is by far the first step towards future well being both financial and physical and also emotional and spiritual.

Many poor people are the happiest and many rich people are the saddest and in between are people who know and believe that the best part of their lives is yet to arrive.

So go ahead enjoy each day as it comes with joy, with gratitude and grace and of course with dignity for who you are within and not what you have on the outside.

You will notice that what you have on the outside will soon start reflecting your inner bliss and gratitude.

We have as much money as we think we are worthy of and the more we start believe in our own self worth and deserving-ness, the more money we start attracting in our lives.

The more we can allow abundance to reflect in all our actions and thoughts, the faster we can allow abundance into our energy system called life. Life changes when we do, our thoughts do.

When we begin to follow our deep inspirations and guidance or intuition more closely and diligently the faster our journey gets towards our self-actualization and financial and spiritual abundance which is always at the top of God’s mind. When we can allow God to participate in our everyday life at a mundane level, there is no limit to how far He can take us.

So let go and let God.

Answer 2

Make them understand that every one can not be Bill Gates. And money is not the only source for happiness. Recently I read an article in newspaper. One family in Gujarat have deserted all their comforts and are living happily in a small town. He was an engineer and could have had all luxiries that one can wish for normally like TV, Refrigerator, Car, Big House etc. But they are living without even elecricity, cooker, Gas stove etc. Happiness is not in being rich. It is in the minds.

Answer 3

Spend lot of time with your family. Eat your meals together, go for walks with your spouse. Help your wife and children in their studies. Give love to them. On holidays you can take your family to a nearby park and play games. Most of all when you assure them something, try to fulfill them. So think before giving them assurances. You can all dream together which would motivate the children in achieving them later. Last but not the least, give them all hugs and show them that you love them all and if opportunity comes, you are ready to make all your dreams come true. All the best.

Answer 4

Do you know how many families with small income keep the family happily. Cut according to the cloth. To be happy each member of the family must have perfect understanding about the income. With the available resources, you must try to be happy and comfortable.

Answer 5

as we grow older in life we realise that its not money thats makes us happy but memories .. even now my parents talk about the time they had a great time with family even though they were not economically well off and how in this day and age when people are financially sound they have no time for family .. i think its the fun time u spend together eating together watching tv and small things like that which make memories great .. wish you luck ..

Answer 6

Good eveningggggggggg Indiaaaaaaaaaa.... pls keep smile. because if u r passing through economically wht u r dong here means ur economically condition is not so worst. pls first u understand abt the said meaning. than u will find around u every one is suffering from economical condition but way is different. question to keep family happy . first u keep ur self Happy and try to boost up ur family and enjoy ur life with ur family. its grate opportunities who given by god. Kya the, Khya ho, or Kya honge pls live on god.

Answer 7

Happiness is a choice. Happiness is wanting what you have and not having what you want. Count your blessings. When you loose money, you loose nothing. When you loose health , you loose something. When you loose character, you loose everything. So cheer up. Don't forget that the BEST things in life are free. As long as love and respect are there in the family , then you have it all.

Answer 8

Money is the main cause for dissatisfied life. But we have to develop a minimised economic life from the beginning.We must control the expenses by simple living.Once we practise and develop the same with ourselves and with our children,there will not be any economic cries.

Answer 9

we are also poor...
my friend, money is not a thing to bring us real happiness... there are so many ways to have a good relationship to evryone even f your not rich..
the happiest day to live is never thinking of money...
what matters is the way you make your family smile and laugh even for the most smallest thing on earth.
no one is rich in this world, its a misery to be rich.. it is not of a pride, here in philppines even if families dont have something to eat, when you go inside their houses, they are smilng and are happy together from gandmother to the youngest child of the family... when we die, we never can bring all of our material thngs, or company, our cars, our houses, our land, our jewelry and all the money...
we bring our goodness our heart our happiest memories and all the deeds we made when we are alive.
so dont get down my friend, half the world is suffering from hunger yet what makes them alive is seeing the smile of their family members, dying with them together, in sickness and in health.

Answer 10

I think communication is quite important! if you let them know that you wanna help but cant as you dont have the money I am sure they will understand. After all they are family.
Be there for them when they need you . You know money cant buy everything ... just be there for them.