I don't want to do it and then regret it, what should I do?
2006-11-12 23:02:35 · 18 answers · asked by Erik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont if u're not ready, if she loves you for you, she will wait and respect your wishes. Otherwise, she's calling the shots and trying to play circus maestro, tell her the monkey tricks will have to wait.
2006-11-12 23:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have an open line of communication with her there is nothing wrong with explaining to her over a nice dinner that your not ready yet but be sure to re-enforce how attractive and how hard it is to resist taking that next step. Rejection can be a killing blow to a new relationship. I would suggest taking the opportunity when you can because after 10 years of marriage and two kids your going to be on YOUR knees sooner or later begging for your Pogo stick to be lubricated for fear of it siezing up altogether.
2006-11-13 07:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wayne H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start her out wearing your propellor beanie a few times a week, say to work and the supermarket and if she can handle that, you can give her short rides on your pogo stick...if she's not very good at it at first, maybe you can lend her that little clown car for a while until she gets the hang of it!
2006-11-13 07:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
one sure way to know you are not ready is to call it your pogo stick.. Oh my god too funny. when you are all grown up you will know when it is right for you.. do not let peer pressure get the best of you.
2006-11-13 07:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait than ~ if your not sure than you are obviously not ready for this commitment. Take your time and you will know when the time is right.
2006-11-13 09:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you regret it? she's your gf. i hope you asked her out because you like the girl. just go for it. the first time is always a bit nerve racking, but after a couple times, you'll get over it and just have fun.
2006-11-13 07:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Listen to your heart and never have regrets--life is too short for regrets!
2006-11-13 07:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are just going have to tell her that u r not ready for that yet
2006-11-13 07:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by wanda h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you'll only regret it if you knock her up
2006-11-13 07:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
y u refuse that....do u think that she got the AIDS
if she dont got it so u will be stupid if u dont break through that step
by the way u deserve it
2006-11-13 07:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋