i realy love this girl , but if we went out we might not see each other much cos she lives about 12 miles away and she works weekends , i dont know what i should say to her cos she knows i like her
2006-11-12 21:04:07 · 18 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really do love her - you'll find a way to make it work. The distance won't matter - 12 miles is far but its not another country is it?
2006-11-12 21:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by teddykinetic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that you like her and that you would like to go out with her whenever is possible for her. If she really likes you she will be flattered and I guess that you will be able to come to some arrangement when you can meet up - she must meet up with friends sometimes, so it may be that she will give up one of the nights she sees her friends to make time for you.
I wouldn't worry about the 12 miles.
Just do what you feel is right.
Hope it all goes well
2006-11-13 05:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 Miles is nothing compared to 12,000 miles. Where's the problem? If you dont drive you could catch the train or bus.
I think its just making excuses but thats me. Distance is no problem as long as you know how to get there.
2006-11-13 05:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man and tell her how you feel. If the feeling is not mutual then at least you didn't do something stupid to ruin the friendship. though at first things might be akward it will get back to normal. and if the feeling is mutual then you can make it work somehow if you put yourself into it enough.
2006-11-13 05:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it helps, i lived 50 mile away from my boyfriend and it worked just fine, now we are living together, and expecting our first baby!!
2006-11-13 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 miles?? do you not have a car, that's a 10 minute drive!!
2006-11-13 05:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly how you feel tell her everything if you don't want if you really like her that much the distance wont matter its only 12 miles
2006-11-13 05:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by nicolefrenzy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah let me rephrase what u said. girls likes u, u wanna talk to her and tell her what a good puppy u r. girl allows u to kiss her ***, offer her gifts, treat her well, etc. then she dumps u for someone that SHE's attracted to.
yup, u may find this hard to believe, but that's how it's gonna b. when that happens go buy urself a beer. my treat (cuz u'll owe me).
2006-11-13 05:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by James Blond 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 miles nto that far but i think u should ask her out
2006-11-13 05:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend lives about three hours away and though we dont see each other very much i love her and she loves me so i think that it's worth giving it a go. ask her if she thinks that you are worth it
2006-11-13 05:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋