I was raised Roman Catholic by both parents. My parents are traditionalists and I want to remain a virgin until I marry but wouldn't want to feel cheated (even if I know) on my wedding night.
I cant marry now since I am still in school, and relatively young (24) and the older I get the chances that I will marry one dimishes. All the hot girls arent. Hell, all my friends arent. I am not in any relationship, and usually randomly "hook up" but never seal the deal.
2006-11-12 20:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I didn't lose my virginity on my wedding night, but both my husband and I have never had intercourse with anyone else. (We lost our virginity after we dated for 10 months- I was 19, he was 20)
If you want to stay a virgin and marry someone who is also, that's great. And the older you get, the chance does diminish somewhat. (unless you plan on marrying a girl who is 18!)
But if you marry a girl who isn't a virgin, you shouldn't feel cheated! If you're going to feel that way about it, then you shouldn't bother waiting.
Also, most religions have dating groups online, so you can look for another girl with your same values, meaning you'll both still be a virgin. Besides, you should NEVER marry a girl who doesn't share your same values. That's just asking for a problematic relationship.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 20:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. There are women out there. I never married but thought the same as you. I have at least 5 friends who are all virgins. We are all over 40 now and realize we probably aren't going to marry. Some of us went to the mission field. A couple of my friends would have been considered "hot" when they were young. I know it's a different era now, but I still think there will be someone . It's a great gift to give to someone on your wedding night. God Bless you.
2006-11-12 21:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Annmaree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not enough
2006-11-12 21:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋