Do Mexican gals like Asian men?

Question

I live in Los Angeles and have been attracted to Hispanic women for a very long time. I don't know if it is just me, but I get the feeling that many are not attracted to Asian men. I have tried for over a decade and am about to call it quits in my pursuit of them. Unbelievable isn't it? I let my parents down and have turned away many young Asian women in the past because I could never truly abandon this preference for a Latina woman. I have what you can call a stable or comfortable living. I got everything going in my life except that I could never find a young Mexican/Latina to be my queen. I don't know what went wrong. On the otherhand, I have seen some Latinas date young black men who have no job or future going for them. I really question society's fairness in the dating game? I know that some other Asian men have also complained about white women not giving them the time of day. Well, my dilemma is the same. I want to ask the Latina ladies why? Por que?

Answer 1

well, in L.A. , it's rare to see either an asian guy or gal dating a mexican, though there are a lot communities there where there are nothing but asians and mexicans living side by side. It's more likely to see an asian guy with a white girl than a mexican girl. Though I recall meeting several mixed asian/mexican people since I was young. If I remember correctly all of their fathers were asian and the mothers were mexican. The fathers were usually Japanese for some reason. However, the parents were married in Mexico, not in the United States, so in the U.S. it's rare. However, I know one Filipino guy that married a Mexican girl in the U.S.

Answer 2

As a Chicana I will say that yes, Asian guys are attractive! At least thats my opinion. But as with everything else, it all depends on what a person finds attractive in another.
I encourage you asian men out there to make a move and approach us Latinas...don't be afraid we don't bite...maybe because we're used to not seeing many latina(o)-asian couples too often we are contributing to keeping it that way by assuming beforehand that one wouldn't date the other.
And about that no Asian-Latina(o) couples existing...BS!!! I see plenty in the SF/Bay Area! In fact my current bf is a mixture of Japanese-Mexican (meaning of course that came from an asian-latin couple). And do u have any idea how beautiful this "mixure" looks...my god!!

Answer 3

Nobody is looking at you funny. You're just being paranoid. I'm answering the answerers moreso than the asker. Who cares if people look at you differently? What can they do for you? I am a black woman and when I see a "white gal with a black man" or a white girl or women with a mixed race child, I think it's a beautiful thing. Anyone who doesn't is racist and just like I as a black woman have to deal with racism, so will people who have the fruits of colorblind love. Ignore the ignorance or disagreement. You can't fight every battle in life, especially the ones that stem from hatred. Live and let live. Gheesh.

Answer 4

i'm sorry this is happening to you. I'm latina myself and in the past i have liked asian guys and guys of all ethnicities, but now i'm with my Egyptian man. I had a preference just like yours, but mines was with arab men.

it's great that you have everything going for you.

You live in a big city like L.A. and there are thousands and thousands of latinas there (i'm assuming). i'm sure you will find one in the future...don't give up. There are many latina women who like asian men and men of other ethnicities. Please don't lose hope. I'm sure that there are other latinas who would love to be with a wonderful asian man, such as yourself.
take care.

Answer 5

OK, that is totally not true what that retarda said about Latinas liking to stay w/ their "heritage"... what a dumbass... We love all types of men, OK? BUT Latinas are used to being w/ Latinos who are typically macho. Asians don't have the reputation for being aggressive and so my advice for you is to be more pushy, aggressive, and outspoken and take CHARGE (w/out being an ahole)! Also, try the Mayan on Fridays, its off the hook w/ chicas sexy! Also, Mexicans love to dance so don't be intimidated and get yourself on the dance floor- puedes bailar, tu sabes! Candela!!!!!

Answer 6

You are truly sad with your complaint. If you are attracted to them then why give up? And you make it sound like just any ol Latina girl would do as long as she wasn't a spainard. I have always wanted to date a black woman but haven't found one that I was attracted to and was attracted to me. Am I giving up? NO. But I'm also not saying they are the only race I am going for. You shouldn't narrow your search to a race but someone who you like and likes you. Otherwise you are destined to have schit luck in love!

Answer 7

I am a mexican girl and I don't know many mexican girls who like Aisan men. I prefer Indian guys but that's just my opinion... Don't give up I 'm sure shes out there!

Answer 8

Its probably you. I saw a cute AM/MF at LAX. Mexican gal had a crush on me in high school

Check out http://amwf.net for some dating sites and forums interacial dating for asian guys

Answer 9

Are u serious?
I can not find them attractive.
You are brainwashed to have such a love feeling toward them
since you live in huge mexican community area like LA and Chicago.
It most likely has huge effect on people's feeling by where they live.
As reference, I recommend you to visit these question threads;
*White and Black women are not popular among Asian guy?(This thread tells the truth)
*Leftover porno magazine and DVD of white, black and latina in Asia. Are they recyclable in other countries?

They are totally unpopular among Asian men.

Answer 10

To be honest with you, i have never seen an asian man with a mexican before. Not many women are attracted to asian, i have heard some stories about asians, no offense