I have been seeing this guy for about a year. Lately we have been fighting. We have had some hard times together. I loved him very much. I thought he was my everything.. Lately he has become very emotionally and mentally abusive and a few timely became physical. He always acted like it was my fault and that I was crazy.. I recently found out that he has been doing drugs.. The other night he came here, he acted like everything was fine, then he just got angry and then he got physical with me to the point where I had to protect myself and put him on his back..... I had no chose to call the police when he treatened my life and my daughters life.... Could the drugs have made him do this??? because before we had a really good relationship...
2006-11-12 19:16:02 · 12 answers · asked by Be wise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you recently found out he was on drugs and you are sure that he wasn't on drugs before than yes, it is probably the drugs that have given him his personality change. If he has started acting abusively to you and has become physical than the only thing for you to do is to stop seeing him. He needs to get help at a rehab. If you were in a position where you had to call the authorities than I doubt that you will be able to fix the damage that he has caused you and your family. I know it hurts but hang in there, I honestly believe that there are some really good guys out there its just a matter of meeting the right one. Take some time to reassure your family that this wont be happening again, and then take some time for yourself to reflect on the blessings that you have. I am sure that you did the right thing and you will get past this its just a matter of time. SLP
2006-11-12 19:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by SHEILA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy take drugs,give him up. i am sure u can do without him.life have to go on irregardless of whether it is good or bad. for ur daughters'sake, move on bravely.do not carry on the relationship with that guy.it is only a matter of time before he harm ur daughters. do not contact that guy anymore.
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2006-11-13 03:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by chew_thang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs would definitely alter his mental state, anything from steroids to cocaine. You have a long term relationship on the line but you and your daughter come first. Talk to him, is he prepared to straighten out no matter what that takes? If he says yes and doesn't come though get out of the situation, you have someone counting on you.
2006-11-13 03:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, drugs will definitely change a person, and you are in danger until the drugs are gone. And if you let him n lyour home you Will become a victim. It's not a matter of if, but When....
2006-11-13 03:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM. Once he threatened you physically you should have left. You have a daughter and the most important thing should be her safety. If he is abusive physically even once, even if he is on drugs you should not be with him.
2006-11-13 03:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by icanansweryourquestions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the drugs are making him behave this way,please get away so he won't hurt your daughter and yourself. Get away now, before something bad happens.
2006-11-13 03:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes drugs can make somebody do something worse then that like kill steal sell your baby oh there is a war on drugs people dieing every day for them you can do better don't be a loser like the user
2006-11-13 03:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think its because of him using drugs. but there's also a reason behind that and that's for you to find out.
2006-11-13 03:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by kezongputi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave babe... be smart and act smart.. u dun wanna c yer whole life being controled and being abuse by this guy.. leave this guy trust mi... he's not worthy of u...
2006-11-13 03:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got it all figure out.
2006-11-13 03:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋