i also feel the same when i leave. i feel like just leaving without saying goodbye cause i feel timid.? what should i do to overcome this?
2006-11-12 19:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by shortstoperic7_2000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
HI friend !
Dont feel like that .
U can overcome this simple problem. Do one thing that go and stand infront of the mirror and practice before talking with others.
Do this u can overcome this problem
ok
bye
2006-11-12 19:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by jyotheeswar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, give yourself a break. You're haven't got a problem. Lots of people get shy, even the people you might think are confident. Don't be afraid to be yourself. This doesn't mean to have an attitude that you don't care what people think, but don't be afraid to disagree with people sometimes. If you've got trouble making small talk, you could even try practising with family or friends. Finally, don't be scared to make a fool of yourself. You rarely say something really stupid in conversation. Just laugh at yourself, people can't resist being attracted to some with a good sense of humour. Just enjoy yourself!
2006-11-13 06:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Yodeller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have this problem. I am one of them. I try to just MAKE myself do it because I know it's the polite thing to do. If I just really don't feel like talking I just walk up to them and shake their hand. Usually they will then say hello/goodbye and even though I didn't say anything out loud I feel I said a proper goodbye.
2006-11-13 03:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be done accept forcing yourself to do it. Say Hello and enquire about their health too or just talk about something. Add appreciation of how nice the party was, how nice the person is looking or how nice it was to be there and meeting everybody with your goodbyes. Chatting more will help you distract your mind from your anxiety. After a few times, it will be easier.
2006-11-13 03:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Most ppl have this problem. Say hi to those who are having eye contact with you. Ignore those who are not looking at you. When you leave, just say goodbye to those who are noticing that you are leaving. But it's important to say goodbye to your host.
2006-11-14 03:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tips: Always feel that you belong.
You've been invited so there's no reason to act awkward, there's nothing to worry about, you don't need to do extra motion but just plain simple greeting will do.
Be confident, it's all about mind-set.
2006-11-13 03:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take someone with you that is semi confident. Let them engage you in social encounters. It will help you become used to the extra attention you may receive.
2006-11-13 03:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by where_eagles_dare_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to build your confidence... try standing infront of a mirror (dont take it as a joke) for 15 mins, and talk with your self, take a book or something read it... look at you.. tell me results in 7 days.... email me at pakimran@yahoo.com
2006-11-13 03:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to do it...
just force yourself to make introductions even tho you feel uncomfortable....with time it will become second nature to you
good luck!
2006-11-13 11:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by SNAP! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋