Basiclly what happened, to all the people who asked, after alot of drama he basiclly thought i lied to him over something stupid, (which i didnt) and then he was angry because id idnt do things i promised like clean up the room and stuff, but its because i had a kidney infection and i just got back on my feet and was working on makeup work and im really not sure what i can do to get him to understand that ido love him and i do care about him. because he basiclly said ""you dont love me you dont care about me or anyone else so if you dont care i dont care"" so then we were about to get off the phoen and i said night i lov eyou and he goes "" no you dont if you dont love me than i dont love you"" and hung up. so im SO confused about what to do/say to him tomorrow i could use advice like RIGHT now. thanks
2006-11-12 18:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by Linneas Mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This really is a bit complicated.
If he knew that you were sick, Then he should not have said what he said. Even if you did lie to him, Which you say you didnt, He should have atleast given you some time to heal!
It also sounds like he under a bit of stress, That would explain his sudden rapid lashing out at you. If you live together, It is expected for something like this to happen as he has no one else to lash out at!
My best advice to you, Is to give him a little bit of space and time to think about things! Do not beat yourself up over this, It is not your fault that you got sick and that you have alot of work to get through.
One of the most important things about "Love" is that both parties need to have a very good understanding of one another!
2006-11-12 18:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by krazy_k006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe.. looks like this guy doesn't understand u at all!!! god... honestly.. this guy u r wif is a JERK.. he is so freakin insensitive.. i am sorry that i had insulted him but.. read yer post again..
-> u just got back on yer feet from an infection of yer kidney
he expects u to jump straight to do the heavy work??!! goodness.. babe.. think over this relationship whether izzit worth being wif him.. he's gonna be yer life long partner...
in this kind of relationship, u will be givin in to him for the rest of yer life.. he will take u for granted..
babe be strong.. u need to...
cheers =)
2006-11-12 18:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u've been through lots! y do not u tell him wat u only wrote? tell him that u're sorry and u be apologetic about callin him such lots of cases or maybe concept u nonetheless love him, u bypass over having hime as friends cuz he replaced into reliable 2 u and continually took care of u. tell him how sorry u r and u do not want 2 lose a competent pal over this entire project and u only want 2 commence over and ignore the entire project. attempt this and c the way it is going. if it would not artwork, he gained't be as reliable of a pal as u imagine. and that i don't think of he hates u... he would only were aggravated on the time. u not in any respect kno...he would tryin' to communicate 2 u back!!!! reliable good fortune, and tell me the way it is going!!!!
2016-11-23 19:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe say if i didn't love you then why am i bothering talking to you.if i didn't love you i would not be saying this to you.
2006-11-12 18:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him, you were sick or whatever, has this been something that was building?
2006-11-12 18:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋