And every chase that he can get he will ask me to be his gf and would like to do the long disnte(sorry about the spelling). But I did tell him after we meet then I would tell him my answer then. But he did say this he really know what he want and he not going to stop something like that I think. But how do I really know that he really like me for sure. He does have a kid with one of his ex gf and he as stayed over night there too. And he hasn't changed his yahoo profile's either. He did change the one on the dating site. I keep remeind him about it. But I don't know what to think, I try to talk to him tonight to see how he was doing and he wasn't even home. But he has been sick had to go to the hospital. But he was the phone one to do the calling or the emails so I am not to sure what to think or do any more. Can someone help me.
2006-11-12 18:08:50 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he has admitted to you that he has slept over at his ex-girlfriend's house, and since he has not changed his yahoo profile (not even after you have reminded him)... I think you should wait till he changes the profile, and wait to see if he mentions not sleeping over at his ex-girlfriend's house anymore, before agreeing to be his new girlfriend.
Also... if you feel it is best to wait till you meet him, before agreeing to be his girlfriend, then you should definitly continue to insist that it is the only way you will do it.
You and your wishes/needs are important... so, if he does not agree to do it the way you need him to do it, then it would mean that he is going to do what he wants to do, and that you do not matter to him enough, that he would fiulfill your important needs.
In successful, caring/loving relationships... the needs/wishes of a partner DO matter (ARE important)... because each partner is VERY important to the other partner.
What it all comes down to is>>> if he really wants you to be his girlfriend... he obviously needs to first be your boy-"friend"...friends certainly do care about one another's needs/wishes.
I think you are already dealing with the situation in a wise way... don't let him push you into making the decision of being his girlfriend, till YOU are ready to do it.
If you give in to him about it before you are ready, then he may expect you to give him his way about other things that are against your wishes... just remember>>> YOU MATTER.
2006-11-13 03:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is probably a very possessive person. why would you commit to being in a relationship with someone you do not know.
trust me if he is staying at his ex girlfriends sometimes, even though they have a kid, he is sleeping with her. if they were not having sex he would visit his kid during waking hours. do not get suckered into this. stop before he knows where you live, and look like. this doesn't sound right to me.
2006-11-12 18:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dating in yahoo is something to be very wary of. People talk to many people, he would not be talking just to you, that would be for sure. Best to meet a nice male in real life, the pc is just fantasy. Dont believe most of it ok, just have fun like he most likely is doing.
2006-11-12 18:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by happy go lucky me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is giving you the run around, then i would let him go..seems he only calls you when its good for him..he and you may want the long distance relationship, but how do you know that he isnt still with his ex? as you say, they do have a kid together..if he's not willing to be patient with your decision, then he may be looking elsewhere too..
2006-11-12 18:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand exactly what you are asking? You sound awfully immature and your writing and grammar are atrocious. How old are you? If he is staying at an ex-girlfriend's house why would you want to meet up with him anyway? I'll bet she isn't an ex and he's looking to get some on the side. If I were you I'd break off all contact with him and move on with my life.
2006-11-12 18:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the answer is simple he is using u like he used her ex
soory to tell u this
well i m not like him
and would do that ot any grl even she the sexiest 1
n your spellind r finr
well berrer than mine and u sound to be a sweet grl
2006-11-12 18:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just get wild and nasty with him and stop teasing him. we hate girls like you.
2006-11-12 18:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋