Its hard when so many guys aproach to you and start asking you out and tell you that they like and they're falling for you. But they dont understad when you say "NOT INTERESTED" they think you play hard to get? I am very attractive no doubts about it and i know alot of women like compliments but sometimes tis sickening. How can I stop them?
2006-11-12 17:58:09 · 22 answers · asked by ilily20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are just stupid. You have to grab their face and make them look into your eyes, if you dont then it is all over. If you grab their face then you will know they are listening.
2006-11-12 18:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a male friend in the know of your problem, ask him to hang with you. He's got to be big and hot looking and ready to kick some butt, maybe a couple of guys with you. Pretend to be bf/gf in those places where these guys are always trying to pick you up.
2006-11-12 18:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by C L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there (not guys approaching me out of nowhere and saying they're falling for me...too weird...but had one or two dates where i didn't feel the same way they did and they pursued it).
just tell them flat out...i'm not interested. if some idiot says he's falling for you and you never dated him...he sounds too psycho to go on a date with anyway.
if you've dated him and then he says he's falling for you, just tell him flat out that you don't feel the same way about him.
compliments and someone saying he's falling for you without knowing you are two different things. this sounds like stalker material.
2006-11-12 18:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by monkiegirl37 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk around holding hands with another female. That usually deters come-ons.
Wedding/engagement ring pair.
Take up smoking. About half the guys will stop dealing with you straight away. Then your skin will turn craggy and ugly many years earlier than normal and noone will bother you then.
Hope these help!
2006-11-12 18:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being attractive has its price,I guess. You sound like you know yourself very well. How / the way people approach you solely relies on how you carry yourself. Compliments are just supplementary. Leave it as it is.
Well,people are being people.Less never seems enough and more never seems content.
2006-11-12 18:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with dating guys for friendship? THAT is what dating IS. Getting to know someone to find out if you might be interested...of course with your inflated ego you're not going to be very attracitve to them for very long once they do date you.
2006-11-12 18:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, you're the problem with women. Always asking why they can't meet a decent guy and here you are complaining about guys trying to get to know you. I'll bet you can figure this one out if you put your mind to it.
2006-11-12 18:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them your only into women! and hang out with your girl friends til you find someone your really interested in than you can just tell them your spoken for..
2006-11-12 18:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by denfasr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just act conceited and full of yourself, that should turn some guys off. You seem to be pretty good at it anyway
2006-11-12 18:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Say You are Taken Instead.
2006-11-12 18:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋