I like this guy, but I'm a virgin, and plan on staying that way until I'm married. Does anyone think that it could actually work with a guy who has had sex before?
2006-11-12 17:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Irish girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are other ways to please a man and for him to please you without having to have sexual intercourse.. are you against all forms of sex before marriage? you could enjoy a great sex life and still be a virgin on your wedding night
2006-11-12 17:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a virgin and like you I want to wait until I am married. But I have found a lovely guy who respects my wishes. He has had sex with several women before I came along, but now he loves me enough to stay with me and to stay in a relationship, which doesn't involve sex.
It depends what you class as sex too really, would you consider doing anything sexual or don't you want anything until you are married??
I have been with him for nearly 3 years and we are now living together and we are both really happy with each other. So yes, it can work out really well, but you have to find the right guy.
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-11-13 03:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by littlepixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not elementary for a lady to need to have sex better than the guy. After 3 years, in spite of the actuality that, i imagine that's a life like question to ask "what would could ensue that you'll experience completely waiting for sex?" you actually have not reported how previous you're, and that i imagine it is correct. The norms and life like expectations replace dramatically between severe college and faculty a lengthy time period. So i will assume you're college age or older: once you're already taking area in sexually at the same time, and taking area in all sex has to provide as a lot because the point of penetrative sex, i does not worry too a lot about it. when you're literally not taking area in sexually in any respect, or have not better previous fondling that would not carry about climax (what we said as "second base" in my day), ...after 3 years, that does look elementary, and also you're probable (rightfully) worried no matter if his equipment is totally sensible and no matter when you're fairly sexually well matched.
2016-11-23 18:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you believe that you are not going to have sex before you get married then good on you. He won`t like it but tough luck to him. If he respects you in any way he will abide by your rule and not pressure you into it, although there are ways around that so he can get what he wants and you stay a virgin.
2006-11-12 17:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a chance. While you don't know what you are missing, he will know. I doubt he will stick around and wait when you've set him an unacceptable challenge. It's very admirable but why? What's that all about? Experiment, have fun, It doesn't mean your a tart to have sex with your partner. What century are we in? I thought we had got over all this prudishness in society.
2006-11-12 18:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by jeeps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it could, I give it a little bit of a outside shot, but it could work. If love is what they say it is then it will work out for sure assuming that they actually do love each other.
2006-11-12 17:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible; however, you have to let him know up front that you are NOT going to be taking your clothes off, and that you are NOT going to engage in any of the other sexual activities with him. Then, if he is agreeable, you are going to have to stick to your guns if he tried to pressure you.
He IS going to bring it up... it is a natural thing for guys to do. YOU are going to have to be stronger, and keep your morals where you want them.
I wish you health and happiness.
2006-11-12 17:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends alot on what he thinks of you. If he sees you as thhe wife of his dreams, he will likely stay & wait. If he is looking for sex, or just dating around, he may stay friends with you but would likely roam.
2006-11-12 17:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might work if you plan to get married a month after meeting. If you want a long romance then you may be disappointed.
2006-11-12 17:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by dsclimb1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes but i catuion you. first, dont think that your not going to comprimise your morals for his. you will, not only because it is dateing and he will fight you untill you give up, but also because he is to be your best friend, and you will be around him enough to take on his idenity and yours to him likewise. Second, this is already a tear in the relationship. something important you and him (im assuming) disagree on. does he want to wait as well or does he not care?
2006-11-12 17:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's prepared to accept you like that then why not. But you'd better be sure he wants to marry you
2006-11-13 00:02:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋