I was in a relationship with a girl for about 6 months, we met over the internet and we met through some hard times she was having, needless to say i was the shoulder to cry on. I am a nice guy and by that I mean I am the one that everyone turns to when there is a problem. I moved across the country for this girl twice. We broke up about 2 months ago and we still talk very often. She says she is not ready for a relationship and I kind of see it. I went away for about 2 weeks and when I came back (by the way she called me every day i was gone) she said that those two weeks felt like 6 months. I'm confused I love her with all my heart and I honestly think that we are great together. The reason we broke up was because I am Boring (NICE = BORING). I don't know what to do to rekindle her love for me. I know I should give her time and i have. It seems we are closer then ever but yet so far apart. An advice would be great, Im going out of my mind here. I'm 29 just to let you know.
2006-11-12 17:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by Joseph P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over her. She pushed you away, but she still needs to talk to you? That is kind of selfish. Well i think you need to make it clear to her how you feel and see her reaction.
If she still not ready, then you can get over her.
If she feels she needs you, she would come back to you as your girlfriend, Ask her once more, tell her how you feel. After her refusal dont get too close, you are just hurting yourself.
Boring isnt a reason to break up definately. !!
2006-11-12 17:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋