2006-11-12 17:29:52 · 15 answers · asked by mugs 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Mind your own business, be courteous, and forget about her backbiting mind. She is not worth thinking about. Take the road of disinterest and keep yourself from wrong doing, wrong thinking. Soon others will notice that you will not stoop to her low low level.
2006-11-12 17:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that this is something that will seriously affect your life, and it bothers you that much. Approach her respectfully, ask her if she has any issue against you, and if she does to let you know so that you both can talk about it. Make sure that you have your information straight so you can ask her straight up, without having attitude, so that she knows that your serous. If you feel confident in who you are, know that for a fact she is doing this, you might be wise to decide weather its worth wasting your energy on a person who does not have your best interest at heart, and just refrain from speaking to her. If she does approach you in regards to your avoidance, then that's when you can let her know in a very clear and straightforward way, that you don't tolerate or respect people who ain't real and can't tell a person how they feel to their face, but instead choose to talk behind there backs. Point is- It's important to stand up for yourself, but it's also important to chose your fights. Don't waste your time and energy on someone, or something that's not really going to make a huge difference in your life experience. Is what that woman says or does really going to make a difference in your life>? Or are you just wasting your time and energy on something that in 5 or ten years from now you might not even remember.
2006-11-13 02:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more worried about your lack of proper English skills than the fact that there is a "gal in ur bldg" who talks about you behind your back. Have you ever thought that it could have something to do with the way you speak?? Take a basic English class, please!
2006-11-13 02:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If It was me in ur place, I would have ignored a creature like her!
I would have asked her to mind her own business!
U shouldn't bother about people who are bad....I would not even worry about her backstabbing ....As it is got a lot of things to worry about in life!!
If u know urself ..I don't think People's backstabbing is going to make a difference 2 u anyway !!!..And If u are concerned about what other people are going to think about u....leave it to them...Those who know u as a person will not pay any heed to her...but for those who don't know u will get easily influenced by her!!
B smart and learn how to deal with these type of people maturedly and with a braod mindedness and understanding!!
2006-11-13 07:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nilima L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you realise that by backbiting she is in a way trying to get you to the right track ? Now it's for you to choose the track !
2006-11-15 11:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by JJat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk as crazily as you wrote this question, I don't doubt that many people talk about you behind your back. There are so many errors in that question that an educated person might think you are an idiot. Perhaps you should study English, and forget about gossips in your building.
2006-11-13 05:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are saying that there is a woman in your building that is nice to you in front of your face, but talks about you behind your back? Is it that hard to type that out... seriously! Anyway, she's a hypocrite... call her out on it if you have proof!
2006-11-13 01:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by missyd2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly just stop to talk her.... if u pay attention on these types of backbites than u never be happy in ur life. be parctical in ur life no one is perfect.... & every one is good on face. & secondly who told u that she is backbite of u.... is that person is trusted one..... slove that problem first dear.
2006-11-13 02:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by vandana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to help you...if I could understand your question. Nice that you took the time to make it clear for people.... What language is that?
2006-11-13 03:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is showing aspects of what you believe about yourself. Practise forgiveness for yourself and Learn to love all that you are.
2006-11-13 01:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋