I have no idea how to do that.
2006-11-12 17:28:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same way you talk to girls. we, as humans, love to talk. esepecially about ourselves. when you want to approach a male that your attracted to. start with small talk. basic, simple stuff, like iono: where he's from, interest, stuff like that. that stuff is just the okey doke stuff, you'll know whats right for the situation when you encounter that person. believe me, none of what you want to talk about is going to sound stupid, it's all negativity built up in your head. as far as what guys like... girls! but besides that, it's different to every guy. generally guys like their ego stroked. most men have something that their passionate about, find what it is through a conversation. Go from their. goodluck.
2006-11-12 17:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be yourself. not sounding stupid comes from both confidence (which sometimes you have to fake) and not actually being stupid.
guys like it when we can "get a read" on you, which is to say, you're not playing games with us. yes, you may act coy on certain subjects, and you are allowed to have your secrets, but dont play stupid mind games. come out and say what youre thinking.
look, guys are easier than girls by a lot. we are much more accepting of a lot of different things. so dont worry about it. just be you, so we know whats up from the beginning. if you arent super funny or "cute," dont worry about it. you have charms that are all yours, let those get you where you want to go. smile a lot!
2006-11-13 01:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you talk to girls? Talk to guys the same way. Just be calm, don't panic. If it is your first time talking to the guy you don't need to know answers to everything right away, just ask a few questions at a time. Trust me, you will not sound stupid.
2006-11-13 01:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Reasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be smarter than them & dont say too much if you dont know what they are talking about. If they ask you something which you dont know the answer to, dont admit not knowing, rather give them advice in a roundabout way. They will think youre deep & look up to you in a way. Never talk too much around guys, It reveals too much about you & you really need to have a secret side which guys should be mystified by.
2006-11-13 01:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just met, don't go on and start asking stuff in his life like a detective it's a big turnoff.
And please don't go gossiping with a guy, you will annoy him immediately
We love it when girls lead a conversation once in awhile it shows great confidence and intelligence when you do it, we don't like to be talking and bringing stuff up to talk about all the time because most of what we like you girls never like anyway.
2006-11-13 01:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by speedster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act natural. don't talk about things that may make them uncomfortable and don't try to impress them with things you don't know about. if you find some common ground, start talking about that. leave first and while you're having a good time so that you are remembered as a fun, friendly girl. if you can't find a common subject, compliment his style or find an interesting person or object to talk about. if push comes to shove, leave and say you have to meet a friend so there aren't akward silences.
2006-11-13 01:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by cheeser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b urclf while dealin wid any1..a guy wudn't like gals bein v. inquistive nd also dislikes gals who try 2 flaunt........a guy is more attentive 2 a gal who is caring nd simple. All dese factors influence if sounding stupid r not.....
2006-11-13 01:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix noir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some guy friends! you don't have to think they are cute or nothin. I know I was asking those same questions as you until I got my first b/f. We went out for 31/2 years and I don't find it hard at all to talk to guys because I know how they think now.
2006-11-13 01:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and dont worry about what they think or what you said.boys at the age of 12 to 15 teen they feel the same way you do. from 17 and up they only think about one thing sex.and they go for look and body types.
2006-11-13 01:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by SENSES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, start out by talking about classes that you have with eachother, how the teacher is, how you feel about the homework, and once you get comfortable with talking to eachother, talk about other stuff that you're interested in *tv shows, random jokes, video games, politics if you're into that, hobbies, etc*
2006-11-13 01:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by xiaoniao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋