again and to be honest he said he didn't kno, i said do you like jessica simpson's breast size and he was like it'd be cool if yours were that size. he said guys also like bigger breasts. even thou it was me that asked him in the first place, it still hurt my feelings when he said it'd be cool if yours were that size..what should i do? or am i just being stupid and thinking about this?
2006-11-12 17:07:35 · 18 answers · asked by rupster_84 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Why did you ask him twice (really three, actually), and furthermore why ask your b/f that? If he's with you then obviously he thinks you're attractive.
Honestly, he was probably getting annoyed with your inane (sorry, but thats what they are) questions. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-11-12 17:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by The fiercest: Jenny 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not being stupid in thinking about that. We all ask our boyfriends questions and then we regret it and we feel bad when they answer honestly. But that's a good thing, unless he's an asshole and was just trying to make you feel bad, but I wouldn't know. Not all men like big breasts, trust me. Just like there are all sorts of weird fetishes out there.
If at first he said that yours were perfect then he cares enough not to hurt you, or he's happy with them and he accepts you just the way you are. But of course everyone's gonna have their fantasies.
I barely fit into an A cup but my boyfriend seems ok with it. He probably does like them bigger, but I'm not asking anytime soon.
You just have to trust that he's with you for YOU and not your breasts. If someone is more interested in the size of your breasts than your personality then he's very superficial and shouldn't be worth your time.
2006-11-13 01:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Annette W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have found if I don't want to know the truth then I better not ask, as tempting as it is. Also not all men like big breasts and those bigger breast hurt the back and when you get older they sag more! Don't worry about it. He loves you and your breasts. Be happy with what you have, think about some other girls and their breasts,,,not so great right.
2006-11-13 01:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're being stupid. What is it with you women? You ask a question like this or "do I look fat in these pants" and then you get an honest answer and you're feelings are hurt. A guy can NEVER give you an honest answer to these kinds of questions. You really put him in a spot. Don't ask them! And if you do, and you get an honest answer that you don't like, then just accept it and shut the hell up.
And also, keep in mind. You've got him. He's yours. He obviously likes you the way you are. That should make you very happy.
2006-11-13 01:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by dawnsdad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think any guy who doesn't like Jessica Simpson's breasts is probably a liar. Next time take his first answer at face value. He's probably more than happy with you just as you are.
2006-11-13 11:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by SuperAmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, would you have liked it if he didn't give you an honest answer?
There's always a place for improvement in everyone. If there wasn't we would all be very boring, because then everyone would have been the same.
And do you want your guy to like you for you or for your bra size?
Plus, don't ask questions like that to a guy. Would you like it if he asked you "Is my penis too small?"
It sounds all whiny, insecure, shallow, and random.
If you really want bigger looking breasts though, get bras with padding in them. Lots and lots of padding.
2006-11-13 01:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope you're not being stupid. Everone feels insecure now and then. It's human.
I wouldn't bother myself too much about it if I were you. Just the fact that your bf is with a smaller-boob-you and not with a bigger-boob-somebody just proves that your he really doesn't care much about your cupsize (although he said "it'd be cool if yours were that size"). I guess he only really noticed after you mentioned it.
Don't bother yourself with such petty issues. And anyways...there're a lot of large breasted women who would die to have a smaller cupsize, so just relax!
2006-11-13 06:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dahv Inchi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're worrying about it too much. The fact that he told you he likes your breasts should be good enough. What size are you (just for the sake of knowing whether he was just being nice or whether you really are well enough endowed)?
2006-11-13 01:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The funny thing about the answer is that all men might "aspire" to have that much "boobage" to grab on to. However, studies have shown that while they might like to have that much, they actually prefer to have as much breasts as their parter has. Conversely, men actually think women want them more "muscley" than they truly do. Very interesting!
2006-11-13 01:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by zerorepeatedone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't torture yourself over this. For starters, breast enlargement should never ever be for the sake of a man.
It's also not true that MOST men like large breasts. Some men like small breasts, some prefer medium and some like large, but ALL men like pert breasts with a nice shape, regardless of their size.
Take care and please don't worry. HTH : )
2006-11-13 07:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate it when girls ask them questions that involves giving feedback to the girl. Usually, men are afraid to express their true opinion because don't want to hurt the girl. I can only imagine a situation where my girl asks me if she looks good, and my input in her appearance is shaky since I don't want to say something that will make her upset or hurt her. I think that your boy was quite frank with you and you should not get upset with it. You wanted his opinion and he gave you his real opinion. If it was me I would have said no, yours are better.
2006-11-13 01:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋