People always tell me that im very good looking and that i have nothing to be ashamed of. Frankly i think there right because im always told that, but for some reason i still have very low self confidence when it comes to talk to other people, or being alone. I cant take being alone because i feel like im a loser with no friends and nothing to do when im alone by myself just watching movies or something. Also, when it comes to talk to other people i have a really hard time...especially when talking to girls, i try and sound interesting to look interest and i end up just kinda making it really akward because i have nothing to talk about because im not acting like me..how can i solve this?..and dont tell me i gotta start acting like me, i know that!..elaborate and help me out a little..i could use it
2006-11-12 16:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Think of a moviestar that you admire. And develop her personality. I have a older friend and she adores "Angela Landsbury"(murder she wrote series) She can give a talk in church and now she talks like her. And she keeps herself perfect.She loves herself. And her husband acts like "Douglas Fairbanks Jr. He worked on his voice. so it sounds beautiful speaking voice. And acts like him and evan jumps like him.(he is a old time actor) my mom had to tell me about him.But they have self confidence coming out of their pores.
The sad part is they can't act like themselves. But people love them more than ever and they get respect too. But remember one thing,your just as good as anyone else. I have to remember that too. Take care and have a happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-12 17:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Building self-confidence requires you to do things that you didnt believe that you could do in the first place. You need to get creative and try some things.
2006-11-13 01:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give a crap of what other people think, thats what i do. that way you never have to be aware of who is a round, you just be your self and friends will fined you.
2006-11-13 01:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by wolfgang4862 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that taking a Toastmaster's course would be helpful for you.
2006-11-13 01:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to REAL PEOPLE.....
2006-11-13 01:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Vetala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋