And I wont have sex until I am married, and he really wants me to have sex with him and he is always telling me if love him then I should have sex with him....but I am in love with this guy! Should I have sex with him??
2006-11-12 16:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was always taught when i was little when a guy tells you that you should tell him if you really loves you he will wait. it doesn't sound like your ready anyways if you were ready then you wouldn't ask if you should
2006-11-12 17:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO That is one of the oldest lines in the book. That is bull, you don't have to have sex with someone to show them you love them. I hate it when they say " if you love me you will" that is bull!! You do not have sex with them until YOU are ready. IF they love you enough they will wait on you. If you want to wait until you get married that is great, you do that !!!!!!!!
2006-11-12 16:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all... how old ru? and "That's a load of crap!" If he loves you he would not pressure you! I was in the same situation when I was younger and he understood and when the time was right FOR ME I told him I was ready. We were 2gether for 3yrs. b4 I decided it was time. We are now happily married for 16yrs and 2 kids later. Please! Don't let any1 push you into something you are not sure of. You can never take back your 1st. time. Make sure it's what you want and make it special. You'll be glad you did.
2006-11-12 16:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...sex till marraige is just going to make you marry the wrong guy. You are either going to get so horny that you marry anyone so you can screw or you will pass up a thousand good guys just because they want to have sex before marriage...Damn how normal! ...believe me **** his brains out....I grew up in a religion that preached abstinence and all my friends ended up marrying the wrong people............There's nothing wrong with sex....please for the sake of everyting that is normal ........have sex .
2006-11-13 13:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Traveler 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should wait. Ask him is he going to help you with the child if you come up pregant.if he has a good answer for that and ya'll are both in love with each other then ya'll should get married. if he doesn't respect you wantong to wait then he doesn't love you. i think that if ya'll LOVE each other then ya'll should get married and ya'll could have sex when ever ya'll want.
2006-11-12 16:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by shanikwa p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then he will Waite for you to be ready and don't really plan on when cuz it never happens that way.
2006-11-12 17:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by n_jevne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. And any guy who pressures you to break YOUR principles is not somebody you should be in love with.
2006-11-12 17:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready then don't. No rush, you have your whole life to have sex.
2006-11-12 16:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jon S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not! if you don't want to, there's nothing he can do about it. if he REALLY loves you, then he'll wait. if he insists, give him some money to spend on a hooker then dump him ASAP.
2006-11-12 16:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋