I tend to frequent a coffee bar w/ a drive thru.
well about a week and a half ago i went through and they had a new bartista working.. SOOO my type
It was halloween so i was in a opera jacket and gothed up. she said how nice she thought i looked and how i should wear it everday blah blah ....
thought she was flirting but realized she could have been nice given me a customer
no problem i say bye... im out.
few days later im back- FOR COFFEE.
she is a bit more overtly flirty this time so before i pull away im like...
"quick question, exactly how many times does one have to drive thru before your number is on the back of the recipt"
her eyes get huge, then she cracks a smile & says Wow, that was pretty smooth,..... i'd say... 3 1/2 drive thrus. i say alright, then i'm out
couple days later i go through talk to her but dont mention the # thing however keep her laughing.
same thing today (3rd time since mentioned)
next time should i bring it up, let her, ask 4 a recipt, WHAT???
2006-11-12 16:25:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quick question, exactly how many times does one have to drive thru before your number is on the back of the recipt"
DUDE, (I'm a girl, by the way) THAT WAS AN AWESOME LINE!!!! (props, bro, props)
Anyway, ---the ball's in your court, just ask for the number directly
2006-11-12 16:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by What gives? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a barista, and a lot of guys ask for numbers. She was probably being nice. She might think you are cute/whatever, but its pretty unlikely that she will give you her number. Its a safety thing really. You should continue to talk with her but don't bring up the # thing for a while. You should see how she responds to you. It seems like she has already been pretty nice, but She could just be trying to get a tip, so that's where its tricky. I think you should just keep going. Make a point to go there like 3 times a week. So she gets used to seeing you. Order the same thing every time. She'll feel like she knows something about you, and maybe after a month you could say, "I know you probably get harassed by a bunch of guys in their cars, but I think you're really sweet, and maybe some day you could come with me to get a cup of coffee. You could tell me how you make (insert your drink here) so well. Here. I'll give you my number. If you don't want to, you can throw it out, but I figured, I'd take a chance. And drive a way.
oh ps
that was REALLY good line. ;)
2006-11-12 16:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she's interested. So, if she gives you the receipt in the drive thru and there's not a number on it, park and go in with the coffee and the reciept, looking slightly dissapointed, but playfully so. When she asks what's wrong, tell her that it's your fourth time through and your receipt is missing something. If she doesn't catch on, show her the back of the reciept and clear your throat (or say something funny). Or she may just play the game with you.
But....I think it would be funnier if you don't ask for it until after she gives it to you, and sans phone number.
Added: See, Blazegirl said the exact same thing!
2006-11-12 16:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time if she does not give you her number park outside and go in tell her that you have a little problem that you have been through 4 times (that you were not sure how to work the !/2 time so you do need your proper receipt-with the number written down for you if she hasn't changed her mind. you could drive around 3 more times a total of 7 times and ask her to please write down her number twice since you did not know how to work the 1/2 trip any other way.
2006-11-12 16:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was smooth. I think you are developing enough of a relationship with this person to ask if she would give you her phone number. Obviously you guys click.
2006-11-12 16:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, my friend, should be a comedian.
You are so funny!!
Heck, I 'd go out with you but I don't like coffee...and i bet you are about the same age as my (adult) son.
Good luck to you.I really mean that!
Sandy
2006-11-12 16:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you you dont need to concentrate on getting her number and ask her if maybe she would want to get coffee with you while shes off of work one day or something
and then you cna get her number then
2006-11-12 16:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by bionca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, next time you're there ask her for her number.....
Stop flirting, stop thinking and get it over with.
Hesitation breeds fear - fear breeds failure.
"I'd like to take you out (for coffee) can I call you sometime"?
2006-11-12 16:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by heywazzupdude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEAH JUST BRING IT UP
2006-11-12 16:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by misskashmere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-12 16:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋