I have a crush on him, but he really doesn't like much physical contact. our relationship (or, friendship i should say), is mainly based on humor, trust, and just having a great time. not really anything else. but he claims he's never been kissed (HE'S 20 YRS OLD!), and i don't want to ruin his first kiss. SHOULD I JUST GO FOR IT? or NOT????
2006-11-12 16:22:25 · 23 answers · asked by Confused86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really like this guy and he likes you as a friend its more possible then not that he likes you back. You should go with what your heart tells you and if the time if is right, and you know it, then go for it.
2006-11-14 15:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably full of hot air, 20 years and never kissed? What makes you think you're not being taken for a ride? And if he's telling the truth, why would you go ahead and lower yourself to force a kiss on the guy. You could do that, but it might scare him off. It happened to me at 15 and I really didn't know what to do, it changes things in a bad way.
2006-11-12 16:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it worth risking this great friendship? If you kiss him would he kiss you back?
If you want to pursue this relationship further then why not, go for it, but make it a good one!
2006-11-12 16:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might screw up the friendship. I would say no. Is it worth messing up your friendship for a kiss? although he is old for a first kiss, let things be. Unless of course you talked about it and he wants you to give him his first kiss....
2006-11-12 16:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not! Especially since you said that your relationship has trust. You may damage that. Plus why spoil a good friendship? Why don't you try to drop a clue that you like him in a sweet way and then see what he does. Don't let your desires control you.
2006-11-12 16:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. If you want to, then make is sound convincing. Say something like "dont you want your first kiss to be with someone u know you care about?"
2006-11-12 16:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough... If the moment is right, go for it. Don't force it. Maybe you could ask him out on a date first, make it casual, start as friends. By the night you could be something more...
2006-11-12 16:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lil_Miss_Riss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to ruin his first kiss, DON'T kiss him. He might not even like you that way.
2006-11-12 16:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to kiss him not like really fast but like slow like in movies and if he backs away he dosent want u to kiss him
2006-11-12 16:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by flashlight243 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not kiss him. However, you might want to check out his feelings for you by telling him you are feeling attracted to him.
2006-11-12 16:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋