We are completely perfect for each other, but we've been off and on for the last six months. We've both put each other through a lot. Many of the things he's done shouldn't be forgiven-like he's left me for another girl TWICE (different girls). But he was a friend before a boyfriend, and we were perfect. When we were good, we were, good. It's hard to explain, but just the way we talked to each other. It wasn't love, but it was close. He left me for someone else, and I think he might try to get back together with me soon (judging by his normal dating patterns). I hate being his rebound, but there are times when I know that I am so much more to him than that. I wish I could just screen his calls and pretend like he doesn't exist, but everytime he calls me I find myself running to the phone, waiting the customary two rings, and then picking up. I care for him, but I don't want to. What should I do? Should I take him back? Should I try to make it really work this time?
2006-11-12 16:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by yoyogirl526 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never nice when you like someone, that doesn't treat you the way they should, and sometimes with every reason to not like them, you still do. But there's only so many times, you should, and can go back to them. If you genuinely like him this much, and it's that hard to be apart it might be worth another chance, but this time try giving him an ultimatum maybe? Tell him that if you go back to him this time, he either treats you properly, or he doesn't, if he doesn't you wont go back a next time. Make him believe it, and stick to what you say. If he treats you unfairly again, you most definitely deserve better. Hope it works out for you!
2006-11-12 16:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by tahanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, the hardest thing is to love some one but not be with them but you need to understand that just becouse you love him so much doesn't mean you have to go back with him every time he looses another girlfriend. If he really cared about you then he never would have left to begin with. Think about this; look at how much you love him, one day you'll find some one that will love you just as you do them. If he comes back to you let him know exactly how you feel and let him know that either he wants to be with you and only you or he's out for good. My suggestion is that you don't take him back, show him that he can't take advantage of you any more and then, if he really cares, he'll realize his mistake and act right.
2006-11-12 16:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by $onya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him work like a freakin dog this time. If he keeps up, ok. If he drops out of the race, forget it.
Turn the ringer on your phone off. Worked for me.
2006-11-12 16:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO??? He left you! Why in the world should you consider "making it work"? Move on! You will get over it. Do some self work on your self worth. Do you really believe you are not worthy of something better?
2006-11-12 16:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOUGH! Tell him how you feel and judging by this question, you should forgive him and take him back, but if he makes the same mistake again, IDK... I understand what you mean.
2006-11-12 16:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!!He left you twice already,move on.
2006-11-12 16:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm he sounds pretty wack..you should leave him fo sho!!!!!
2006-11-12 16:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by lipoforreal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋