wow sex seems like impossible.... what do i have to do anyway? god when i was a girl i like nver talked to my mom and i never will about this... what do i do now that my boyfriend wants me to have sex? He says "i want to do everything possible" and i just ughh im confused. what do i do during the sex. I do love him!
2006-11-12 15:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look if you aren't ready, you aren't ready. If he loves you he should understand. Maybe if you can't talk to anyone about it then maybe you shouldn't have it. This is not a decision to be made lightly. Besides keep in mind that your first time could be the time that you get pregnant. Condoms break. Keep that in mind. And if you do decide to go through with it use a condom and spermicide. This will kill sperm. How old are you? If you are planning a future, career, things like that.. I would wait. I am 19 yrs old. I am still a virgin. Mainly because everyone I've met is pregnant.. and because I have self respect. I would wait till you are ready. Only you will know when.
2006-11-12 15:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by t_marie_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it would be good thing to go to the library and do some research on the topic. See what you may encounter or gain some strategies.
There are some issues with having sex like getting protection to prevent pregnancy, and std's. All of these things need to be taken into consideration before you begin having sex. Stop and think about how you feel when you think about having sex with your boyfriend. Do you feel good or bad? Do you feel uncomfortable or uneasy? If you are experiencing any negative feelings then you may not be ready for sex. Listen to your heart. Do what feels right for you. Make sure that before you have sex that you are feeling good about it. Make sure that you are feeling ready to engage in that type of intimate activity.
2006-11-12 23:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question you are most likely too young to be asking it/comtemplating on doing it...
If i were you i would wait until youre married...
If youre confused its your subconscious telling you that youre not ready for that kind of "step up" in a relationship
Also think of the consequences that come attached to intercourse.. can you handle a baby at your age??
I hope this helps... =]
ps-- if he loves you he will wait.
2006-11-13 00:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am sure that if you are totally unsure, then you may be too young to discuss it. dont do anything until you are mentally and physically ready....okay? when you are old enough, you will know when you are ready,
2006-11-12 23:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how to have sex... You're probably too young to be asking this..
2006-11-12 23:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in fact you feel that you are ready, then simply do whatever it is that comes natural. Be yourself.!!
2006-11-12 23:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a hardcore porno and make you know exaclty what everything entails.
2006-11-12 23:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur too young, wait a few more years...it all should come naturally, its just instinct...
2006-11-12 23:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you start playing with his penis. when his penis gets hard you put it in your mouth and suck on it. if he doesn't cumm in your mouth you pull down your pants and let him stick his penis in you. then you thrust your hips in against him and enjoy it.
2006-11-13 01:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by do you wanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lie there and and take relief in the fact that it'll be over soon....
2006-11-12 23:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋