OK, so we got into a fight about him hanging out with these guys who he has asked me not to let him hang out with. He told me he was hanging out with them and i got pissed. He keeps telling me to help him quit hanging out with them, but he turns around and is with them again. He doesnt like to hang out with these friends because they are only into drug, alcohol and sex, and he is not that kind of guy. Well he lives an hour away and just showed up on my door step to apologize. And now he wants to come and spend the night with me to make up. What should i do? Blow him off send him home, or let him in?
2006-11-12 15:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by ducttape 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its your personal choice you know him better than anyone
2006-11-12 15:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mimoh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of the bum. You are not his mother and he should be old enough to say no to the guys if he doesn't want to hang out with them. If you get involved with him you are looking for trouble. Get someone more mature.
2006-11-12 23:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Miss G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to be his Mommy. Unless he's an orphan, he probably already has one. Honestly, do you really want a guy like that at this stage of your life? Get wise and lock him out.
2006-11-12 23:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not his Mother..It's not your place to say who he can play with.....If he wants to play with you tell him the games are over and be firm....Men are just weak......Either he'll be interested enough to stay there with you or he'll go...And he's into the same thing his friends are..."birds of a feather"
2006-11-12 23:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by southernpal4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing games
send him home
it sound like he wants to keep you
and his friends from really connecting
that way you never find out what he is really like when he is with them
dump him
smells like manipulation to me
2006-11-12 23:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think hes feeling guilty about something
2006-11-12 23:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by kennybaily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋