I have been chasing and chasing this girl, and she says she likes me and says she can see us in a relationship together.
And I know she likes me likes me, but she keeps canceling dates and we never even get to see each other....
Do I just WALK AWAY, give her some space and DATE other women, or do I just ignore HER!
I know quite a few women that will give me time with them, but I turn them down for HER.
But I don't want to keep turning other women down, if she can't find time for me....
2006-11-12 15:43:28 · 29 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So quit already.
2006-11-12 15:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Harsh reality is that if someone really likes you then they will also really want to be with you and NOT cancel dates-----stringing you along. Some women like having the attention even if they do not feel romantic towards the man and will say to keep the attention coming. You are hanging unto threads and need to move on with your life. You can like and chase and do all the right things but the other person just does not feel it-no one's fault just not there. You've wasted enough time on a dream-time to wake up and find another. Life is too short.
2006-11-12 23:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in exactly the same situation, my man. It's a difficult one, no doubt about it. However, what you need to do is work out how you feel about her. If you feel deep down that she's the right one for you, HANG IN THERE! You'll know if she's the one. If she is, then you need to give her all the time in the world, because in the end it'll be worth the wait. Plus, in the meantime, while you ARE waiting, you can get to know one another better and better and have a solid basis of friendship to build the inevitable relationship onto!
Good luck, dude!
2006-11-12 23:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by CumQuaT 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on what you've described, I see two things: one, this woman is simply not interested ENOUGH in you to MAKE the time to be with you (in which case - move on), or two, this woman is playing games with you, which does not bode well for a future relationship (in which case, move on).
Yes, walk away. Hopefully, by the time she realizes that she made a mistake, you will be so happily involved elsewhere that it won't matter.
I believe in fate & destiny. If the two of you are supposed to be together, it will happen. In the meantime, don't cut yourself off from other possibilities. Ms. Right IS out there.
2006-11-12 23:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by happy heathen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it, you are a "back up plan" for her. She likes you enough, but always is going after the 'prize pony'. No one needs that.
What you need to look deep inside for is why you are so attracted to someone who is so unavailable. Think about your parental relationships and your first sexual relationships. Now armed with that mental insight, go out and find a healthy relationship.
2006-11-12 23:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by xillith 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it some space. Don't keep asking her out. She obviously knows you like her, so now the balls in her court. If you keep after her, then she will not respect you as much. Wait for her next move. In the meantime, don't put all of your eggs in one basket.....see what else is out there.
2006-11-12 23:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just answered your own question! you don't want to keep turning down other girls if she can't fint the time for you. you might not want to hear this but, it doesn't sound like she's all that into you. move on you deserve a little more attention than what your getting.
Good Luck.
2006-11-12 23:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she only wants you if she has no one else. So dude, go about your business. Find someone who wants you all the time. In my dating, one shot was all the guy got. If he stood me once with no phone call, it was later gator, don't call me and I won't call you. If I got a phone call, maybe. Too many fish in the sea to put up with that crap.
2006-11-12 23:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Miss G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
been in that situation in a relationship before and I moved on, people make the time for things that are important to them, just because they say you are important to them doesn't mean that you actually are
2006-11-12 23:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say move on and ignore her. Women hate to be ignored and it might just make her want you more when she sees you've moved on.
2006-11-12 23:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by GUITARZAN30 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her youre interested, and would like t o go on a date. ask when shes free, so she cant make up an excuse. but tell her to tell you if shes not interested instead of just ignoring you. good luck!
2006-11-12 23:49:20 · answer #11 · answered by wethers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋