alright long story short, i fell in love with this girl named amber, we went out, we broke up she started liking someone else, so i got over her or well atleast tried, now i really like this girl named ivy, and im going out with her, but now amber's jealous and like cries all the time because she missed me and her.
i feel guilty because i really like ivy,
but im starting to fall for amber again
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2006-11-12 15:41:09 · 8 answers · asked by justin_shore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so i like started to pretend like i liked her and stuff
and now she's all like w/e and likes someone else,
so amber is just going to have to be forgeten!
2006-11-14 12:32:40 · update #1
go for ivy
amber only likes what she cant hav
2006-11-12 15:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by qwertyuiop23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber seems to me like she can't decide what she wants. Stick with Ivy. If you fall for Amber again, she'll probably fall for someone else. I know. I have a friend just like Amber.
2006-11-12 23:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, what a complicated situation you are in. I really don't know what to say because i don't want to say the wrong thing. But just thinking if i was in that situation myself, i'd really consider the feelings of the partner i'd be with now, and how unfair it would be to them if i were to fall for my ex partner again. I personally be thinking in your case now that she (amber) moved on and the only reason she is coming back for you is because you also moved on and are with someone else, i mean, does she genuinely want you back or is her jealousy blinding her so much that she just can't stand seeing you with someone else. I think perhaps she expected you to be so upset that you'd beg for her back, but you moved on and found someone else who you are now growing to love. I suggest that you stay with Ivy, she will be good for you and you really like her, and you may even one day love her as you loved amber, but this is such a complicated situation and i don't think that any answer on this site will completely cure your problem. I do wish that everything will turn out for the best for you. Good luck. =)
2006-11-12 23:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Amber does seem pretty sensitive about the whole think with you dateing another girl.What i think you do is stick with Ivy for awhile.I mean if she Ivy really likes you and she really wants to be with you as much as Amber then you should give Ivy a chance before dumbing her.I mean if she doesn't seem as much better then Amber and she seems not to be the one your looking for then go for amber.DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT.GOOD LUCK
2006-11-12 23:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ivy deserves better than you. You deserve the two timing Amber who will probably start liking someone else again once she knows shes got you back.
2006-11-12 23:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wht Amber is doing is called "Manipulation" She isn't happy so she doesn't want you to be happy. She thinks she has some control over you. Stick with Ivy.
2006-11-12 23:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by quickspend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Ivy hasn't dropped her new guy friend yet, then cut all contact with her. She is just trying to keep you as an option, not her priority. Don't betray the one that is loyal to you know, or you may end up getting betrayed yourself!
2006-11-12 23:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by мooи sнiиe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she screwed herself over and she should let go go for ivy and dont chance having your heart broken or hurt your feelings again and if she really cared she shouldnt of lost you in the first place
2006-11-12 23:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋