I need your honest advice... what do u think about all this? thanks!?

Question

I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess there's nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then, I feel like She's a sluTt and too easy, i lose respect for her..... what should I do? These women I date are decent, not some whore on the street. I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...

Answer 1

Maybe because youre simply irresistible. Get used to it...
Anyway,I dont think theyre that decent after all. True decency cant be compromised that easily in such a short time ;)

Answer 2

Well judging that I don't honestly know you, it sounds like you enjoy the way you treat these women. Well look at it this way, you say that these women you date are not sluts. Their decent girls. Some men really get a rush out of smuting out really decent chicks. On some level, you may realize that you can't handle a slut. Maybe a slut is just too liberal of a woman for you to handle. She's secure about what she does, and doesn't feel the need to apologize for what she may very well know about herself already. It sounds like you don't like to be challenged. And nice girl are just the easy lay your looking for. You know there eagerness to find the one. But that same easy as Sunday Morning Attitude have lead them down the path to your bed, floor or where ever you do it. You present like this nice guy. And before the panties hit the floor, your over her. I could say that you can get to know these girls. You know, determine if you really like them, BEFORE sleeping with them.. But I'm guessing that's not what you want to hear. Therefore, what was the purpose of writing this little story, when you know that you really enjoy being you...........and there's nothing wrong with that. Is there?

Answer 3

Start by just going OUT and don't end up at each other's house until after you get to know each other a bit. And if you do want a relationship based on more than just sex, keep your hands to yourself... or just around her waist/back/shoulder.

I have no problem making out on a first date if the vibe is really right, but a guy who tried to feel me up on a first date would NOT get a second date. And I'm no prude by any stretch of the imagination, I just prefer knowing I'm with someone who is more interested in me as a person and not just trying to get physical.

Answer 4

Here is what I don't understand. If women put moves on you first and you don't really want it to be that way, then why don't you just stop it?

Also, I really dont think you are picky. Being selective with choosing who to be with is a smart move. Maybe those women you've met or picked up are from the wrong places or not the right one for you.

Answer 5

I wish there were more men like you. First of all maybe you should start off by telling the women you meet you like a relationship to move slow and at a slow paste. Let your feelings and emotions out way your hormones. Just tell them you are looking for someone long term and not a one night stand. Let them know you wanna get to know the person they are on the inside before you get to feel there inside (LOL)

Answer 6

Wow, I don't know what to tell you , I am still reading the french kissing and petting part.

Answer 7

This is bs, I've seen your other questions....bull!