me and my childs father been together for six years and we been having problems for 3 1/2 he doesn't call like he use to he treats his friends like there on top of the world and treats me like **** i never really get to talk to him because he's always with his friends and when i do talk to him he tired, or either the phones going dead but the other day i found out that he was making the beeping noise on the phone to make me believe its was going dead. i'm really to the point where i'm fed up with his mess i know i can do a whole lot better without and i can find someone who can treat me and my child way better than he has. so please help me in my situation and besides i love him but love is not suppose to hurt.
2006-11-12 15:04:26 · 13 answers · asked by TEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him. Somtimes kids need adopt-a-dads...not just sperm donors..and you dont deserve that. And you need to get outta that situation for you and you child..! Good luck!
2006-11-12 15:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but; he's cheating, he has found someone else; and, afraid to tell you out right because he is afraid of the child support and losses he will experience in disposing of you.. i.e., personal belongings. your right you can find someone who will not only treat you better but raise the child as his own; if; you treat him like a king.. remember, be good to your man but; don't give him too much rope. You have got to keep it interesting and loving if you want to keep a good man. Look around; what your looking for may not be very far off.
2006-11-12 15:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call him your child's father which leads me to belive your not married. It sounds like things have been a situation of convience for 6 years/
You should shop around for another man especially if your not even married. At least see if you can do better.
2006-11-12 15:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by vengeance01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have the answers to your own questions. Perhaps its time to start listening to yourself.
You're right. you don't need that crap and neither do your kid(s). Whether he is a good father or not, he's gotta respect the baby mama.
You disrespect yourself by allowing him to treat you like this. No one can truly love you until you love yourself. SO start today, move on! It hurts more and longer to STAY than the short term pain of GETTING ON WITH YOUR LIFE!
2006-11-12 15:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by metismaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't love him... you're just used to him. You definitely can do better than this, but that starts with learning to be happy on your own, take care of yourself and your child. When you are ready to have a healthy relationship, you'll find someone.
2006-11-12 15:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you have a child with this guy but if he is treatin you like this then you seriously need to get out of this relationship because it is only going to cause more heart ache for you in the future. and by the sounds of it he probably isn't worth it. you sound like you deserve some one way better.
2006-11-12 15:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it hurts, you need to get away from this guy. He is no good for you or your children and you will be much happier in the long run without him. It will be hard at first but you will be so glad you didn't waist anymore time on that loser.
2006-11-12 15:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts but he is not in love he think more of his friends than u do what u gotta do it will hurt 4 a while u will get over him pray and u cant let him in & out ur life
2006-11-12 15:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by vickey417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is a bad guy. And you deserve true love and support provided by a man who really cares for you.
2006-11-12 15:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by TheCreatress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say this but
the worst thing about love is that it always hurts
no matter with who or about what.
let him go he'll soon realize
what he missed out on and he'll get back to u
when he sees that you are trying to forget
him or that you are trying to find
someone to replace him.
2006-11-12 15:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋