Yesterday, I went on a date with this guy from online. We did make out in his car last night with clothing on. During the make out session he tried to ask me to perform oral sex. I told him he has to wait for 3th date or a month. Today, he called me and tried to confuse me with term "dating." He stated that dating doesnt have to be girlfriend or boyfriend. Is it me or him confusing with "dating term?" should i bother to meet with him second date??
i'm very sad and confused...
2006-11-12 14:50:50 · 19 answers · asked by 2006xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clear and simple . . . he is obviously out for sex. The first time you meet he asks for oral sex! He just wants to use you and leave you. Don't ever let anyone make you feel pressured!!!! Don't ever contact this guy again!!!! Leave him alone and set your standards a little higher. Sex should not even be a topic on the 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd date. Personally I believe sex shouldn't happen until you're married. . . but . . . realistically I know that's not what people do. So, understand this, sexual engagements always complicate things simply because women are naturally emotional! Sex to men = physical pleasure. Sex to women = emotional pleasure. No matter how us women may deny it. . . we are only lying to ourselves! It's a biological thing we can not get around!
After all, you didn't even engage in any sexual act and you are already getting confused!! Chances are, he is off somewhere, (probably with some other girl) not even thinking twice about your conversation while you are here waiting for answers on "Yahoo Answers"
One more thing. . . "When in doubt. . . do without!!!!"
2006-11-12 15:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he just wants sex and that's all. If he really liked you, he would appreciate your willingness to wait for the sex. Dating doesn't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend but each person should be on the same page when it comes to having sex. How many other girls has he met on line and had sex with? You really should wait till you know this guy much, much better before doing anything with him again or if he has made you feel uncomfortable, you should let him go. Good-luck.
2006-11-12 14:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go on the second date the guy sounds like a real JERK.
if he were any kinda guy he would of never said anything like that.
Just be careful if you go out with him again.
Just gotta be careful on the online dating there are some real creeps out there im not saying all. just be careful
best of luck to ya
2006-11-12 14:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by smiley_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seemed to confuse you...sex on the first date? You seem disappointed, why would you consider dating this guy again?
2006-11-12 15:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by nid2bhapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im no exspert but my advice is that if all he wants to do id have sex and tell make up definitions on the word dating then your wasting your time you'll find mr. right and i wish you all the best of luck and remember theres mr. right for everyone good luck!
2006-11-12 14:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means none exclusive daiting thats what "term daiting" is. So don't worry and its up to u on the second date. personally i wouldn't.
2006-11-12 14:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy that doesnt respect your wishes, and tries to tell you that you are wrong for wanting to wait, is not worth it, i would move on... im sure there are more decent guys out there.
2006-11-12 14:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb. and dating= going out and having fun on dates. doesn't technically mean, bf/gf.
2006-11-12 14:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Andi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. he sounds very desperate to get a bj, so i think u should just leave him and cut all kinds of contact with him.
2006-11-12 15:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,ummmmmmmm he sounds like a creep i wouldnt i dont people from the internet anyways
2006-11-12 14:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by ??the unknown?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋